RE: This is the kind of sh*t that makes me hate some people.
My wife is an OT specialising in ASD's in young children and we see this behaviour all the time from adults.
In this instance, the woman saying 'I dont care' is shocking and disgusting beyond belief, but dont you end up inside for twatting someone, your kid needs you more than the legal system does ;-)
You said he's 4 ? Can I ask what he's into and how severe he is ? We have kids come to the wife and the one thing they all have in common is a skill, something impressive which makes people go wow. We have a 7 year old who copies calligraphy videos from you tube and gets through a ream of paper in an hour drawing company logos! Another who leans towards music, another who at 4 years old who can name every flag in the world...there's always a skill in there somewhere mate.
Best wishes to you, your missus and the little fella :-)
He can name every brand of car just by looking at it from down the street.
I have a folder in my browser loaded with Google image searches of about 50+ car logos, and it's like flash cards.
"Ford!"
[next tab]
"Maserati!"
[next tab]
"Volkswagen!"
[next tab]
"Lamborghini!"
[next tab]
"Audi!"
haha excellent, I knew it :-) how cool is that....they just see the world in their own special way!