If only the doc is a parent of one, they depend on reading and they really do not know much. When my girl was diagnosed with Down Syndrome some 20 years ago, the doc told me my daughter will not be able to speak or know anything. When she is 21, she will behave like a 5 years old at most. What depressing news for a new mother. Lucky for me i did not go into post natal blues and do something silly. She did not know that with early intervention program, they can learn and speak (though not well or clear) like any child but delayed. They are just very naive, lovely, very trustful and honest in their remarks which can offend people at times. If policy makers are aware of what parents have to go through, they might be more flexible with less red tapes or loops for us to go through. We hope and pray for all parents with a challenge child to have the patience and love to see them through difficult times. Stay positive and believe that things will get better.
God Bless you and family.
@jackpot