Make people attractive to listen to you
What do you mean? That does not matter. What I want to hear, That's what you're saying, that's the matter. You may have many important things to say, but they are important only for you, I do not have a single penny for them. You can be a Harvard returning scholar, if your scholarship does not attract anyone when he pretends to others, he can not stop exaggerating the great scholarship audience. We listen to the annoying person, for the sake of courtesy. Your feelings or knowledge will not be of any value to anyone, it is normal. So if someone wants to talk, if you want to earn time from him, you have to work in such a way that he would like to give you time.
To know how to earn time it's a big art *
Develop confidence. People are attracted to those who are confident in themselves. When you're around someone you want to attract, try to have some self confidence. Do things that make you appear confident, such as sharing your opinions and personality without hesitance