Let's reframe... you came over, took a shit on my lawn, proceeding to tell me how my yard stinks.

I have no need to defend "my position," because I was never posing any beliefs nor attempting to persuade anyone of anything.

If you want to start genuine conversations, opening by discrediting their work and insinuating they're a moron and fool - according to the frame you have constructed - is probably not the most effective way to begin.

And now, you get to bow out convinced of your own righteousness. No need to further defend, since you're obviously right.

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