Musings IX

I've never been obedient. 

It's in my nature. I hate being told to stop, that I'm not allowed or that it's inappropriate when logically it makes perfect sense. I'm a nonconformist. I date outside my race, I wear what I want, I treat everyone with respect and kindness while others choose to whisper harsh things behind their backs. I strive for equality and I continue forward with the hope for better days.

Our societies teach us to shame each other for not playing our roles correctly. 

Labels are constantly being placed on several groups. Labels that make you question the reasons why they were created in the first place. What if I fell into more than one category? Would I be cast aside because I could not and chose not to fit in? 

Race, gender, environment, finances, and sexual preference- I want all those titles to be stripped away. I want everyone to think about what's left behind once these things no longer matter.

Are you kind when no one is around?

Some might say that my judgement of others is harsh, I'd like to think that I'm speaking truth. It's been laid out in front of me and others choose to ignore the obvious. If you're being a jerk then you'll hear it straight from my lips. We've been conditioned to perceive certain levels of cruelty as normal. 

Too often do I overhear people speaking poorly of those they consider a friend. The person speaking cares only for themselves. The person listening cares more for the opinions of others rather than friendship. In a different situation these issues could be resolved by simply confronting the person and sharing ones feelings, but that almost never happens. Next week we will overhear another story, same issues but different friends and it becomes an endless cycle. 

I've been very fortunate to have a tight group of like minded friends. No judgement, just patience. We inspire each other and acknowledge that there is so much left to accomplish. We keep our heads high and support one another as we continue to grow.

Thanks for reading my musings.