THE KEY TO UNDERSTANDING WHAT LIES BEHIND OUR BEHAVIOR

Where there is a lot of anger, there is pain.
For severe pain hiding hard to bear experiences.

Where there is a lot of reasoning there frozen feelings.
Where frozen feelings, there is a lot of fear, shame and resentment.

Where there is a lot of action, there's a fear there stop.
Stop can come the senselessness of movement and emptiness.

Where there is a lot of rules, there is pronounced distrust their own senses.
Behind the distrust of feelings lurking fear of its spontaneity.

Where looking for bosses, there is great experience of rejection.
When the experience of rejection is great, you really want to get approval.

Where there is a lot to say about the other, it is difficult to focus on yourself.
When it's hard to focus on yourself, there's a lot of shame.

Where there is a strong craving for achievements, there is much anxiety about the future.
Where there is a lot of anxiety about the future, the past lives there and the present disappears.

Where the mask is worn indifference, there is a lot of frustration.
The disappointment hides a desire of tenderness and warmth.

Where they run away from contact, there's a lot of internal pressure.
When the internal pressure is strong, there is an incentive to act aggressively.

Where there is a lot of criticism, there lives a desire to change the world.
Behind the desire to change the world lies the unwillingness to take its place in it