Advice
No matter what happens, one always has the positive side of things; if the things have it, because if not, you have to invent it. Because the best reality is the invented one. Of course, the truly reality will really do everything possible for your invented reality to collapse. Because reality is what makes the things hurt. What the truly reality wants is that you have pain, and well, you don’t have to give it the pleasure. Never.
You have to disguise the pain, always.