We're complex beings and without communication between two parties there will only be suffering.

where is the love, there is nothing lovely here, no commitment, no giving, no caring. What love can there be if two people aren't as one. This speaks of a bad relationship, with a self-centered fool. Sorry for my lack of empathy, still this isn't love it's wanting. And yes as @rocksg said I'd say it a bit differently, there can't be love if you don't love yourself because then you would have nothing to give.