Love the angle of this post. For me having anxiety was at least a 50% job. I guess i must have come across as shy or arrogant. You just dont have the energy to be the real you. Always scared of conflict or disagreeing people. So you just end up like no one. When i realized that my weakness was the worst thing i could do to myself i started working on getting strong. When youre anxious, youre weak. And that is not a virtue at all.