I understand all too well what you must be going through right now @misslasvegas, I hope you manage to find a way out of this situation, if there is anything you think I can help with just ask, we are in the south of Spain right now in a small town called Orgiva, filled with homeschoolers and alternative people who are all escaping the system one way or another.
If you need a place to get away I could ask around?

Keep us posted

Bless.