Soft and hard two opposite and in life, there are many opposites, such as dark and light. Yin and Yang, sometimes I am hard and the other time soft. I think the best thing to do is balance and be aware of your emotions.
Happily, I am most of the time real soft and I am proud of it. With passion, you need the emotion Love if you want to fulfil your passions in Life. I became an passionate anarchist out of Love because I believe in the freedom of al living beings.