The Truth About AnarchaForko and It's Creators.
Many of you know me as the "Bringer of Fiesta" for both Anarchapulco and Anarchaforko last year. I went out of my way and risked life and limb to give you the party you deserved. I evaded many hostile actors in this area of operations to ensure you had a good time. I did all this for you, the people who spent their hard earned money to have a memorable experience in beautiful Acapulco.
I had an incredible time partying with all of you and made many lasting friendships. I will never forget some the insane moments I shared with many of you and hope to have more this coming conference.
There were some who actually saved my ass when I became overwhelmed by the sheer demand for my services. My experience at Anarchapulco was a testament to how anarchy works. I had a spontaneous order cartel spring up in a day to ensure I could keep providing the fuel for fiesta. I will not name names but I even had help from rock stars who partied with me from dusk til dawn on a few occasions. You are the true heroes of Anarchapulco and I will never forget you.
Many of these awesome people that helped me, came to know the people I worked for (@dready-john-galt & @lily-da-vine) and did not have a high opinion of them at all. They would tell me not to trust them and that they acted like meth addicts, which makes sense of the missing $12K USD. People would constantly tell that they were toxic and couldn't wait for them to leave because they were ruining the party. The people that allowed me to set up shop in their room, didn't even want my employers hanging around as they didn't trust them.
I never stayed at the hotel even though I had operations in three different rooms... People loved me and I loved them.
Even though I did all I could to ensure the survival of the fiesta, I cannot take credit for financing said operations. I was not the one who put up the resources open what became known as "El Loco Gringo's Fiesta Supply and Lounge". By the time the conference had come, I had already partied myself into the poor house.
The large sum of money, that purchased the "vegan plant-based energy powder" that you came to know and love, came in the form an interest-free loan given to John by another person who I will not name. John did nothing to earn this money and I have learned about his suppliers. All John did was take advantage of a friend, who he and Lily now despise and talk shit about, and use that money to buy something that can easily be obtained. He then asked me to be the front man for selling it because he was too chicken shit to do it himself.
All John did was shuffle someone else's money around, buy something anyone could have, and had someone else do the legwork. The definition of a pointless middleman. The person who lent him the money has since given up on actually getting paid back so he forgave the debt to avoid further headaches.
None of this should come as no surprise to those that have lived with or have had the misfortune of dealing with John for an extended period of time.
I came to know John and Lily very well during my stay here in beautiful Acapulco. I worked countless hours helping them on their farm and actually came to live with them for a decent period of time. I became very acquainted with the social dynamics of John and Lily's relationship. I actually saw the true side to these wanna-be celebritarians and I am going to do the best I can to enlighten all of you in this article.
This is actually the 3rd article that I had written as the prior two were rejected by my life editor for being "threatening"...
Whatever...
I will just give you my analysis of both John and Lily and their Fork. I will try as hard as I can to keep my emotions to a minimum as I am not looking to spread my opinions. They have done many things I consider violations of the N.A.P. but I will not get into these at this time. I believe I am handling this quite well considering back in the day I would have already curb stomped the shit out of John.
John is a classic case of borderline personality disorder but what do I know? I studied psychology to learn how to pick up chicks not to analyze bitches... Sorry, that was very unprofessional of me. I am pretty stoned at this point in time bear with me.
I have seen his mood swings and intense episodes of anger first hand. He would go from perfectly fine to stark raving in seconds. I have watched him verbally abuse Lily for minor mistakes like cooking the wrong kind of hot dogs. I also bore witness to the physical abuse of their pets. I could never say anything as I was living in their storage room working for rent and food so my opinion didn't matter.
I also watched John mentally manipulate Lily and became the victim of this myself. He would constantly bash everyone in the community even those that he claimed were friends. If anyone thinks John has not talked shit about you, you are sadly mistaken. The constant toxic negativity started to affect my own mental stability and my opinions of others. I had done and said things because of this mental manipulation and am still making things right with the people I wronged due to his poison tongue.
John could never be wrong and would rationalize his abhorrent behavior to anyone that would listen. If you didn't agree with him or what he did he would tear into you as well. If someone had a difference of opinion or knowledge you know to be true, he would start drawn out pointless arguments until people simply got tired of talking. John would normally get what he wants from others because they would asquesque to his demands to avoid his lashing out and verbal assaults. He is the definition of a moody spoiled teenage drama queen... Shit there I go again. My bad.
John is very good at putting on a mask when other people were around but once a social gathering was over he would be ripping into someone for something. When I lived there I was his emotional whipping boy until I started snapping back. I would try to help in social situations because he and Lily lack any actual social skills yet to get screamed at for imaginary slights against him. I had never met someone so two faced and fake in my life.
John is also one of the laziest people I know. So much has been accomplished on the Lily Mountain farm but the vast majority of it was done by others. He did very minimal work, complaining that the sun made him tired. I worked long and hard to get shit done as I grew up on a subsistence farm and could actually handle the labor that entails. He was never happy with anything that anyone did for him.
John really never did anything himself as most of the time he was living off Lily's blogging, overcharging for shitty rooms, or borrowing massive amounts of money from anyone he could. Many of these debts people just stopped trying to collect because they didn't want to deal with him. He would then spend this money on drugs or expensive toys, like a drone that cost more than most Mexicans make in a year, and quickly be back to struggling to make ends meet. I believe this is an attempt to fill a deep void in his soul with material possessions.
John may also suffer from delusions as I have heard him obsess about imaginary power struggles in the community here and how he was going to come out on top. He would talk about all these properties he was going to buy and how he own all of Lily Mountain when in reality they could barely feed themselves or afford their pot habit. He would make up stories about how people had wronged him and how everyone wanted to steal Lily away from him.
He also seems to have some trauma pertaining to sexuality. Whenever someone would start talking about sex he would either quickly change the subject or get angry. If it was brought up in front of Lily at a gathering he would verbally attack her for the conversation when others had left. Sex is a healthy and beautiful part of life but it seemed to be a great source of pain for him. He would even get angry and abusive with their dog Rebel when the dog got an erection. The poor animal would try to hide his boner from Jon by keeping his belly pressed to the floor. It was actually kind of sad.
I am formally advising anyone to avoid having any kind of personal or business relationship with John as he cannot be trusted and is a toxic individual. As previously stated I did not formally study psychology but you do not need to be an expert to understand that he needs professional help and should be avoided until he gets it.
Now when you first interact with Lily you first cannot expect her to give her an actual opinion of her own. She a textbook example of a battered spouse with Stockholm Syndrom. I myself keep making excuses for her with the way the two have treated me knowing that she is but a prisoner in an abusive relationship. I actually worry about this young lady and hope that she is okay as I have not spoken to either in months.
I have talked with Lily many times, with John being absent, and she seemed to actually have intelligent things to say. She seemed brighter and more alive when separated from John. She would laugh more and actually smile. When later talking about the same subjects with John if her opinions didn't match up with his, he would scold her and she would go back to just parroting the opinion he gave her.
Lily would just stand silently looking at the floor while John would rip into her and all she would do was agree in a meek pathetic voice. I would hear her say voice something I knew he wouldn't like and have to prepare myself for another sermon from the "Gospel According to John".
When she would talk about how she wanted to have other girlfriends he wouldn't allow it. He would demonize every one she showed interest in spending time with and forbid her from going out. He would make up stuff I new wasn't true about people to convince Lily not to spend time with them.
She has told me so many times that she was going to leave John yet never act upon those threats. I have actually come to think that she fears for her safety and needs help. I cannot be the one who does this as I want no part on the lunatic fringe on Lily Mountain.
If there are those that are experienced with helping those suffering in domestic abuse situations you may want to look into these two.
Now my opinion of the Anarchaforko is this, don't waste your money. I had a free pass to the conference last year and, if it wasn't for me selling Johns drugs, I would have rather been doing other things. The only good thing about the Fork was the networking opportunities. If this is the only thing you are looking for I will find a place to host gatherings free of charge.
There is also my moral objection to the Fork as it will simply go to funding the lifestyle of an abusive narcissistic asshole.
In conclusion, I advise everyone to avoid getting close to this couple or spending money on the Fork.
If you are currently close to these two troubled individuals, I suggest distancing yourselves from them. If you have loaned them money consider that money gone and avoid lending to them again.
Don't let this cloud of toxic negativity brought by certain individuals subtract from the incredible beauty of Acapulco or the friendly fun loving Mexican people. Come to Acapulco and explore on your own. I assure you that you will have more fun and spend a lot less money if you avoid the Toxic Hippie Kids of Lily Mountain.
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