Relationship— "Is Your Spouse Really The One"

Hmm, Good day to all steemians, hope we all are good?.
This topic maybe confusing and disturbing. As regards this topic I really cracked my brains because it's not an easy one..

My reason for this post is to open our eyes to see beyond the present because A rich man who relies on the present suffers the future.
We go into relationships which I'd say it's like a journey with many obstacles but to succeed one have to think beyond the present, look forward, Examine our relationships then ask ourselves this!!!
"Is He/She really the one"

Most youths make the mistake of getting married to the wrong person and they regret later on. We make promises or sometimes take an oath or indulge in blood convenient which is bad in a relationship. I think there's this special demon assigned to promises because it's when the couples takes such oath that the relationship starts shaking which may lead to breakups and then consequences follows in the future.
In my previous post I advised us to always discuss with our spouse or plan with him/her. During the course of discussing you would know if your partner is the right one. Reasons been that while you would be talking about the future their mindsets would be based on the present..
Most especially avoid putting anything about your relationship on social media.
If you are a lady and you post on social media about your spouse, you are therefore creating this kind of awareness like stay clear we are engaged. Thereby scaring the right one for you away and you'll end up losing from both sides.

I'll be stopping here but would release the part two (2) shortly stay tuned..... Shout out to all steemians and readers...