If you believe that infrastructure & development can only be attained through violence & force, I'm sorry, but you're mistaken. Just because you can't imagine it, doesn't mean it cannot be/hasn't been so. "Everybody to their own" is also thus an oxymoronic statement to follow up that opinion with, because what you're saying before that is "Everyone must do what government says", which is antithetical to "Everybody to their own".