RE: "I am bored in my marriage. How can I refresh my relationship with my wife?"
You have responded to the amazing thing @nomad-magus, i'll add a little tip
Here are some tips to avoid the boredom of married life.
1. Always strengthen motivation Married is worship and is part of religious guidance.
This motivation must always be strengthened in husband and wife at all times. Married is not to try or play, or just to channel humanity's desires. But there is a very basic motivation that causes husband and wife to build family life.
**2. Build a comfortable and pleasant communication Convenient communication becomes the key to the happiness of marriage. **
The many differences of opinion between husband and wife that occurred in a long time can make the relationship becomes tenuous and not harmonious. Husband and wife should be able to build a comfortable and pleasant communication pattern, so as not to create a tense and boring relationship. Every day is colored with a light chat that refreshes the atmosphere.
3. Build mutual interests Try to build common interest with your partner, so that the relationship becomes more harmonious.
For example, husband and wife together pursue a particular hobby or interest that benefits the family and society. Both developed the interest so that it became a fun together fun. Just a hobby of gardening in the backyard, planting vegetables or fruit or chili, take good care, and the results are made to friends and neighbors. It will keep away from feelings of boredom.
4. Always maintain the intimacy of the relationship Age of marriage as well as biological age need not be a barrier for husbands and wives to always keep intimacy relationship
Husbands and wives should always take care of the intimacy of relationships, using romantic words, romantic acts, and trying to try new things in intimate relationships, so it can always be enjoyed all the time
5. Always improve appearance and service Although no longer newlyweds, but not to ignore the kindness of appearance and service.
Husband must be very pleased to see the charming appearance and satisfactory service of his wife. Similarly, the wife would be very happy to see a neat appearance and a pleasant service from the husband. Although age is older, do not let the appearance to be disheveled and unattractive to the couple.
6. Have a sense of humor and art Art taste and sense of humor is important to maintain family harmony
Husbands and wives who live mechanically, have no sense of humor, do not have artistic taste, will easily get caught up in boredom and saturation of married life. Sometimes it takes spontaneous activity that makes surprise and happiness for the couple.
7. Always be grateful for what is owned Be thankful with what is owned now.
Alhamdulillah have a good husband, have a good wife, have good children, have adequate facilities, and so on. One of the reasons for divorce is because feelings are never satisfied with what is. Husbands and wives are always demanding more than their partners, feeling never satisfied with the couple's condition. Look always good and positive side couples, to be able to be grateful for what is in him.
Many will benefit from your advice 👍
Thanks @nomad-magus
you are the best and hopefully useful for many people
Enjoy the happiness of married life up to an unlimited time, forever, throughout our ages.