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RE: I have fallen in love with a woman but I am hesitating to cheat on my wife. What shall I do?
Every act of infidelity starts from the eyes. If your eyes is single, your desire will be controled. If your desire is checked, your hand will be inactive. However, if we are under the control of God's spirit, we will apply temperance. Lets stay safe.
Thank you for this opportunity to elaborate.
From my perspective, life is not about staying safe within the boundaries of the limited personality, but rather to boldly go where no one has gone before, and that is the divine self. On the way there one needs to go through one's dark aspects, to experience the dark hours of the soul. This is not to say that enlightenment requires suffering. It is to say that there must be a movement out of the comfort zone.
The soul constantly nudges the person to go within, to expand the consciousness. If one is safe and comfortable in a stable relationship then the soul will "implant" thoughts on one's mind: "You are getting old, check out that hot person, they like you" etc. The purpose of such messages is not to tempt the person to cheat but to make them examine the source of these thoughts and connect with the divine.
Hence, what may seem to be unsafe, dark or devilish may turn to be one's biggest assistant.