RE: "You can never prove your love to those who doubt it" - A painful lesson I have learned throughout the years
Finding the love from within would surely unleash all the doubts that we have. But how about those people who were lied to from the past? Who had kept broken promises deep within their hearts? Who wholeheartedly believed someone when they were at their most fragile moment, yet ended up with a broken heart? These are the people who weren’t able to help themselves; who weren’t able to “fix” themselves when they were in the process of hurting from the heartbreaking circumstances that happened to them. They are the survivors and surely not a victim, for they have successfully had gone through hell although in broken pieces, yet continued to carry on with their lives.They may had been in a desperate and helpless state, yet they were able to crawl away from it. And these people end up building walls high enough to protect and hide that hurt part of themselves. These are the people with trust issues, who have been hurt from past yet continue to give themselves a chance to heal that ripped heart that they have. Giving themselves another shot to be fully happy by being able to fully trust someone once again. And with that, maybe you don’t know that that person that you are loving is clinging unto your love to be able to face another day of their lives as they continue to deal with the demons from thier past.
Thank you for this brave post, speaking on behalf of so many.
Those who have been hurt were given a gift from the one who broke their heart. They are now stronger, tougher and more connected with their intuitive self. Indeed, they have built walls. Indeed, they (think) they have trust issues. But all is well, as they are in the process of allowing their divinity in.
There is no point in processing, thinking "how can I trust again, how can I get over my doubts, how can I fill myself instead of feeding off?". All these questions are food for the mind but they mean nothing for the process, and they don't influence the enlightenment.
Those people who have been hurt will feel one day that they are ready to start over, love again, trust completely and with no fear at all. How come?
They will know that it doesn't matter. That they can be betrayed again, bitten (emotionally) again, left alone again, but they will always always have themselves. And the discovery of this wisdom will free them for eternity. And they will love and be loved like never before.
This I promise you.