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RE: "I am bored in my marriage. How can I refresh my relationship with my wife?"

in #advice6 years ago

Their need to know more, in itself, stems from a deep, continuous desire to know their own aspects. At first, when you meet a new person you fall in love with what they have to offer you in terms of revealing hidden parts. Intuitively, you feel that the person will make a big difference in your life if you fall in love with them. After a while, while that person has intuitively "fulfilled his purpose", again, he feels that his spouse will have nothing else to contribute to his progress.

I once read that the forbidden is the desired and although it is not directly your vision, I feel that what you say is that as long as the mystery exists, there will be magic... Life as a couple is absolutely difficult, as long as there is no respect and communication and a little tolerance, I feel that boredom can come when you somehow influence it, couples should always seek to reinvent situations that strengthen the bonds, this of having new things to discover sounds attractive, But normally I am transparent and I leave nothing to tell later, after reading you, I can see my mistake, in short, the couple must have time together and this alone time becomes difficult if there are children in between, I do not marry, but I imagine that to avoid boredom is good to experience new things, to avoid falling down, happy late, thank you for sharing

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You are not necessarily wrong.
Like you, I believe in total transparency! I believe that when we are revealing the basic, superficial issues, the details of our life, the so-called skeletons, we make room for grander mysteries to come forth.
So many couples are wasting years in fear, hiding issues from their partners, or keeping secrets to themselves in order to spice up their love life. They lack the trust and awareness that the greatest mystery lies in their inner selves, and there is an infinite field of expansion.
Two people, in love, who commit to each other, who trust each other, who are open to each other, can embark on a journey over the seven seas, way and beyond, which will never end. Can not end.

Thanks for your inspiration to make this comment 🙂👍

Two people in love who are committed to each other, who trust each other, who are open to each other, can embark on a journey across the seven seas, road and beyond, which will never end. It can't end.

and in fact I think the road is wonderful, whenever it is accompanied, only we do not always know what we want and with whom we want it, I think the right person comes, but you are not always aware of it, thanks to you for always transmitting good advice, happy day

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