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RE: "Is it OK and normal for me to have 'space' in my relationship with my boyfriend?"
@nomad-magus Sometimes it needs a lot of togetherness. And at some other times, relationships need space to grow,to have a perfect relationship with your partner, you and your partner need to understand how to give space in a relationship.
True love is blind, some say, but true love too can get boring over the years if neither of the partners have nothing new or unique to share. And the closer you get to your partner, the more of your individuality you will lose. Spend every single day with your lover, but spare a day or a few hours for yourself in a week.
Not necessarily. If one is secured in one's identity then they can even be emerged in the other's consciousness and still maintain their own self-identity.
This is why it's better to be in a relationship when one is centered and aware.
Thanks for your comment 👍
Ys i agree and the goal in a relationship is to be close and still maintain an identity as a separate person. When people are in an individuated state, they are happier and more optimistic.They have a stronger sense of themselves so they are capable of more intimacy, love and passion in their relationship.
You are welcome @nomad-magus