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RE: "I am bored in my marriage. How can I refresh my relationship with my wife?"

in #advice6 years ago

Big man @nomad-mogus thanks for the great article concerning marriage.

Let me bring this from a Christian perspective, the salt in our marriages does not have to lose the taste and this clearly informs us from how far one of the partners will have fallen from the original set up and vow during the marriage ceremony.
Matthew 5:13-15.
This clearly states the reason why many marriages either thrive or go down an d in this we have to understand that if our marriages are losing the freshness as before, then there is an influence of a third party and this determines how far the marriage will go. I have come to understand that the devil is the factor as to why we ought to be very careful.

We very well know that Ephesians 5:25 teaches us husbands to love our wives and them too to submit to their husbands and therefore it is the cardinal principle on which the mystery of marriage stands. As said in the article, there are few things which normally lead to loss of pleasure and freshness in marriages and these are below

  1. Pride is the biggest thing which normally leads to loss of salt in any marriages and in this case the woman being on top just shows how it will be easy for such intimacy will be lost in just a short time.
    We all know that the moment a lady wants to be on top, it will be going aginst the entire plan of God and that means falling away from the truth and this is so common in the current generation where money is the rule of law.
  2. Cheating on one partner maks the other party lose the appetite because it will clearly show that one of you is not perfoming as expected and that sends the other on the dark path and hence loss of self esteem and in that you may feel like divorcing due to starvation in relation basically marriage. We all know marriage is built on sex or intimacy and therefore that alone refreshes the marriage.
  3. Lastly according to the current generation, there are tendencies of getting tired of each other and people going their way due to long distances traveled for work and keeping away from their spouses and this kill many marriages due to lack of care for each other. In this set up marriages tend to be on the verge of breaking in this many people interact in the respect environment where they spend time and hence end up losing trust in each other.

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