No pain No gain!... It is often believed that in life whatever doesn't give you pain, can never bring gain to you. For me its biblical and that was when adam and eve disobeyed God and they were cursed with pain before they make something good out of it.

Pain to us as human could come as sweet pain or pain pain, either emotional pain, psychological pain, it could come in any form and trust me it leaves a mark or scare for lessons learnt or for something significant.

Pain is bad, it shouldn't have been what is associated with anyone, it takes time to heal, that is if it heals.