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RE: My Actifit Report Card: April 25 2019

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My son has had a motorcycle accident in last november. He still suffers from the injuries (ankles, knees, shoulders, ellbows, broken collarbone, lost fingernail and more).

He is riding his repaired motorbike again, but carefully and with fear, he says.

I have not seen the accident, but I have seen his injuries, and I have seen his pain.

Last week I got my motorbike back from winter storage and I was so happy. I love to ride, and I make more miles than the average motorcycle riders - about 600 miles a week.

I just cannot enjoy riding this year. I ride, I love it, but before each turn, I think of my son's injuries.
Before he has had his accident, all I wanted was to ride my bike, at any time and at any weather.
Now, when the weather is fine, I think, I want to go riding, but will I come home alright? Will there be a pothole in a turn, which I don't see? Will there be oil on the road, or will a car driver not see me, like it often happens?

I know, this is by far not comparable to your experience, but your story made me think of it and showed me, what I haven't realized yet. Should I overcome my fear, which is sitting in my neck when I am riding, and which might cause an accident?

You can be proud of yourself JJ, that you have finaly been able to ride that cable car, and nothing happened. Now you have done it, you don't need to do it anymore, but you know you can, if you want to.

My father said a few weeks ago after a little heart attack: "When it's time for you, then it's time. If he wants to get you, then he will get you."

He did not want to get you ... whomever my father meant.


These are just the thoughts that went through my mind when I read your story, and I hope I could write it down fairly intelligibly, and I hope you don't mind me writing of some of my own problems.
Your photos are super JJ, as usual. !tip

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I have seen a guy die on a motorcycle. My normal habit of hanging back and paying attention kept me from being involved at all.

I still ride. More than normal also. But I very certainly understand your hesitation. If it's no fun, or if the voice tells me, I just don't go.

Thank you @bigtom13.
I didn't want to move the attention to me, just wrote, what came into my mind, when I read JJ's post.
But you are right, the good feeling on the bike will come back. It's just a matter of time - that's very different from JJ's experience.
As biker, I am riding similar to you: I try to stay on a safe position and keep an eye on everything.

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Firstly there is nothing wrong with relating your thoughts and feelings if triggered by a post personally I am glad when people do that
Secondly after your sons accidents it is normal to feel that way when out on your bike I actually think it is quite similar in many ways
I feel the same as your Dad, fate was on my side that day and in fact I have been lucky with aircraft incidents as well which is the weird thing after some lucky twists of fate I missed being on flights that crashed but I never had a fear of flying maybe because I did nit personally see the crash

A saying I often say which is also the chorus song by Doris Day is

Que será, será
Whatever will be, will be
The future's not ours to see
Que será, será
What will be, will be

Thank you for this kind reply, JJ. I think, you are a lucky guy after all :)

You might be right - seeing an incident with your own eyes will might be worse, than to hear about it or even seeing it on tv.

Actually, this song by Doris Day is one of my favorite songs, and the ringtone, when my mum calls ;)

It is such a cool song isn’t it fir me hearing it just makes me feel better 😎
I think seeing it or experiencing it first hand like you and your son makes the reaction and feelings so much stronger

That's truely one of my favorite songs too.

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It’s one of those songs that just makes you feel good when you listen to it :)

That's exactly how it is 👍
Often, when I walk alone, and I walk alone most of the time, this song comes into my mind...

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Yes the same for me, especially if I am feeling my aches and pains that song comes into my head and I feel better

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