Accepting Who You Are in Real
Whenever someone accepts you completely, unconditionally, you begin to change.
Acceptance gives you such courage. When there is someone who loves you just as you are, do you notice the miracle of changing happening, how soon it turns into a quick transformation? The very fact that you are loved and accepted just as you are, that nothing is expected from you, it warms you, it animates you, it integrates you, it gives you confidence. It makes you feel that you EXIST. That you don't have to meet any outside expectations, that you’re true Being is respected and loved.
Even if you find one single person who respects you completely (because any judgment proves a lack of respect), that accepts you as you are, that doesn't demand anything of you, that says: "Be yourself. Be authentic. I love you. I love you, not what you do. I love you as you are in the depths of your Being, I don't care about your outside shell or your clothes. I love your being, not what you have. I'm not worried about what you have, I care about one thing: What you are. And you are extraordinary beautiful!"
This is LOVE. This is why Love fulfills us so deeply. Love and accept yourself first and know, that whenever you find a woman or a man who simply loves you for no reason, just for the sake of love, that kind of love transforms! 💚
There is only one way to love people, and that is to love them as they are. Here lays the beauty: that when you love them as they are, they change; not according to your reality ~ they change according to their own reality. When you love them, they transform. They don't convert, they transform. They are renewed, they expand, they reach new dimensions of their being. But that happens inside them, according to their own nature.
Suddenly you become a different person, one that you've never been, you remember YOU, you become YOU. Suddenly all the sadness disappears, all difficulties disappear. Your steps will be turned into a dance and your heart will sing the song.
Love,
@invinciblelight 💫
When you're loved unconditionally and you wonder why they do or how they can...
Why wonder? Just look at your mother, how she love you unconditionally. Unconditional love is the pure love, where you don't judge other person as other but a part of you. 💚
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STOPIt is true that acceptance is so important in building good relationships. In close relationships we often have the tendency to change others. Actually a lot of times it is us who needs to change. Thank you @invinciblelight. Upvoted and followed.
Absoultely right @rosatravels! Acceptance is simply recognition. When you recognize a thing, you see it for what it is. All of our experiences, no matter how awful they appear to be, are temporary. Acceptance of an experience as a temporary situation can make it a lot easier to handle. ☺ You're welcome! ☺
Good post..
Dear, I am upvoting your posts daily via https://steemit.vote, do you make the same to me? :)
Yes. Thank you!
Hey @invinciblelight! this is a really damn good post!! I agree, we should love unconditional but nowadays most people do not do that. Sadly, love is commercialized as well and most people see love as not accepting the other as a part of them. Hopefully this perspective of love will change and we will realize that we are all one and not separate.
Thank you for sharing this post of yours man! :)
I am glad you liked my post! ☺ Yes, not everyone love us unconditonally, but It doesn't matter if someone love us unconditionally or not. Change start with us. "Be the change you want to see in the world." Change is happening now. 😀
You're welcome! 💚