I can see, it's really very complicated... But to respond to negative actions with more negative actions is what has caused so many wars in the world, this is no exception, it is necessary not only one but several intermediaries to decide which would be the best position because it is supposed that both are contributing with donations and good gestures. Everything needs to be properly documented and evidence presented that is not only compelling but also allows for reliable monitoring of events. I am one of the few people who believe that there are solutions to these problems, but that is if the conditions for a proper pact between two adults are met. I hope for the best @lyndsaybowes