SAME SPECIES, DIFFERENT WORLDS (man and woman)

Men and women are different, not in terms of "better" or "worse" perspective. Just the only thing they have in common is that they belong to the same species.
They live in different worlds, with different values according to quite different sets of rules. Everyone knows this, but very few people, particularly the men, are willing to admit it.

Surprisingly too, scientists, anthropologists and sociobiologists have known this for years, but they also have been painfully aware that to express this knowledge publicly in such a politically correct world could turn into social pariahs. Society today is determined to believe that men and women possess exactly the same skills, aptitudes and potentials - just as science, ironically, is beginning to prove they are completely different.
Where does this leave us? As a society, on extremely shaky ground. It's only by understanding the differences between men and women that we can really start building on our collective strengths - rather than our individual weaknesses.

Evidence

The truth, however, is most definitely out there.
Look at the evidence. Around 50% of marriages ends in divorce in Western countries and is on the rise in other parts of the World. Most seriously also, relationships stop short of becoming long-term in our societies. Men and women of every culture, creed and hue constantly argue over their partners' opinions, behaviors, attitudes and beliefs.

Some Things That Are Obvious

When a man goes to toilet, he usually goes for one reason and one reason only. But women use toilet as social lounges and therapy rooms. Women who go toilet as strangers can come out as best friends and lifelong buddies. But everyone would be instantly suspicious of the man who who called out, "Hey Frank, I'm going to the toilet. You wanna come wit me?"
Men dominate TV remote controls and flick through the channels. Women don't mind watching the commercials for a longer time. Under pressure men drink alcohol and invade other countries, women eat chocolate and go shopping.
Women criticise men for being insensitive, uncaring, not listening, not being warm and compassionate, not talking, not giving enough love, not being committed to relationships, turning the temperature down and even leaving the toilet seat up.
Men criticize women about their driving , for not being able to read street directories, for turning the maps upside down, for their lack of sense of direction, for talking too much without getting to the point, turning the temperature up and for leaving the toilet scat down.
Men can hardly find a pair of socks, but their CDs are in alphabetical order. Women rarely find the most direct route to their destination but can always find the missing set of car keys. Men think they are the most sensible, women know they are.

How many men does it take to change a roll of toilet paper, it is unknown and it never happened?*

Men marvel at the way a woman can walk into a room full of people and give an instant commentary on everyone; women can't believe men are so unobservant. Men are amazed how a woman can't see a red flashing oil light on the car dashboard but can spot a dirty sock in a dark corner 50 meters away.
If a woman is driving and gets lost, she will stop and ask for directions. To a man, this a sign of weakness. He prefers to drive in circles for hours, muttering things like I'v found a new way to get there or I'm in the general area and hey, I recognize that petrol station!

Different Job Specs

Men and women have evolved differently because they had to. Men hunted, women gathered. Menprotected, women nurtured . As a result, their bodies and brains evolved in completely different ways.
As their bodies physically changed to adapt to their specific functions, so did their minds.
Men grow taller and stronger than most women, while brains developed to suit their task. Women were mostly content for men to work away as they kept the cave fires burning, and their brains evolved to cope with their functions in life. "*Allan Pease, Why Men Don't Listen, 2001".

CONCLUSION

Over time, from the inception of life, the brain structures of men and women thus continued to change in different ways.
Now, we know the sexes process information differently. They think differently. They believe different things. They have different perceptions, priorities and behaviors.

To pretend otherwise, is a recipe for heartache, confusion and disillusionment all your life.