Steemit Engagement Challenge S5-W2 - My 3 Best Characters Vs My 3 Worst Characters
Hello everybody.
Welcome to this post. I hope that all of you will be good and happy and enjoying your precious health with the grace and blessings of Almighty Allah. Today, I am going to participate in the Steem4Nigeria contest for Week 02. The topic of discussion for today is My 3 Best Characters Vs My 3 Worst Characters. So, let's start the discussion without any wastage of time.
List 3 characters of yours that are the best or good characters that you have. Explain them and how you display them.
The behaviors are actually reactions of a person at some particular circumstances or for some events that happens to him. Different people have different behavioural attributes. Some people are so much normal on severe events while the others are very sensitive and over-react against the same events. Talking about the characters that are good in me according to my sense are as follows.
The first and the most important character that I have in myself is that I am a very friendly and loving person. I always try my best to never disappoint my friends on their positive demands. I never thought to hurt my friends or to play tricks with them for my own benefits.
I like it very much that I am able keep this character in me since the childhood. No matters, whoever want to talk to me or asked me something, I always like to guide him or help him to the extent that I can do. This things also comes true with the person who are not so much close to me.
According to my views, friendship is the strongest force in the world that can face every difficulty and every hurdle easily. True and loyal friends are actually the blessings of God Almighty and I always try my best to improve the friendships with my dear ones, instead of disappointing and hurting them.
The most powerful and the most important factor that could help someone in the hours if need is the true and constant believe in Almighty Allah. According to my views, everything happens for own good. Allah Almighty never disappoint the positive and consistent minds.
Sometimes, I become very much hopeless and disappointed when the results goes against my favour or predictions, but later on, I realized that the results are actually in my favor. If my predictions could be happen, I might have to face a great loss. At those moments, I always praise the Almighty Allah and say thanks to him for protecting me.
Our strong believe on Almighty God always keep us in safety and never make us hopeless. For that, we just have to keep our strong believe upon Almighty God. At the time of difficulty, we should have to pray for Allah to solve our problems.
Another character of mine that sometimes impress me a lot is patience and consistency. I believe that consistency is the key to success. Whenever a person is faithful and consistent towards his deeds, he surely get success in that matter. This is a great behavioral aspect in me that whenever I make a decision, I stay consistent over it and wait for the results.
Patience is another important feature that everyone should own. Patience is a great protector. Sometimes, patience becomes the cause of turning the results towards our favour. If the circumstances are going against me, I bear them with wide heart instead of being disappointed.
Ups and downs are actually the part of a life but the man should have to hold the consistency and patience with them so that they can make large steps towards success. Failures doesn't meant to be hopeless and disappointed but it is the opportunity to try again with more zeal and passion and also improve the mistakes that we have done previously.
Would you advise others to display them?
Being a well-wisher of everyone, I will surely recommend everyone to hold these things in their character to fulfill the meanings of life. I would surely recommend everyone to be patient over their failures and remain consistent towards their decisions.
The firm determination is actually the first step towards the success so we should to be consistent over the positive decisions that we make. But, if we think that that the improvements could be made in those decisions, then we have to go forward with proper planning.
I also recommend everyone to find out the best friends in their lives. Friends are actually the blessings of God that always make every event of the life, more precious and memorable. One must have to be very careful in the choice of friends. Where good friends are blessings, on the other hand the bad friends are like scorpion or snakes. So, choice of friends should be very careful and time-consuming process.
What are the 3 worst Characters that you sometimes display that you even condemn?
We all know that nothing is perfect in the universe, so the same is the case with the characters of someone. There are many worst characters that I sometimes display and these characters are actually the drawbacks of my personality. Having some dark sides of personality is not a sin if we have recognized them are at least try to improve them. Some of them are as follow.
One of the worst drawbacks of my personality is that it is not a difficult task to diverge my mind whenever I am doing a task. My favorite things could be displayed to diverge my attention from the orignal task that I am doing. It is a very bad habit, I think, because it always leads to delay in the completion of task.
If we do a task with great attention and great passion then we can easily do the works of days in hours and the work of hours in minutes. It is a fact that when our mind is diverged towards different tasks at the same time, we could not perform well in any of them. Also, it leads to the wastage of time in the useless activities.
Laziness is also a very habit that I consider in myself. Whenever, my mind doesn't allow me to accept a task, I show laziness and sometimes this laziness lead me in a lot of difficulties. I often let the tasks go in the red list that I will do that later or in the end.
Another character that I think, is spoiling my personality is severe anger and rudeness. Most of the times, I am a very jolly person while the other times, due to multiple reasons I become mad with anger and rudeness is the start of that anger.
There are many reasons that may cause this condition. One of them is the useless rudeness and anger of someone near and dear to me. If a close person shows rudeness to me, first I try to apologize if I am wrong. If I am not wrong, I try my best to guide that person and try to make him realize of the mistake, but when the person doesn't become ready to accept his mistake, I also become rude and my mind burst with anger that can lead me to make wrong decision in hurry.
I am trying to avoid showing these attitudes because I know that there is no gain of hurry and anger. If the matters are solved in a good conservative way, it is best and if not, then let the matter go in the pending list instead of being angry and rude over it. Anger and rudeness in my personality is not a part of my nature, but if someone try to go beyond the truth, I have to express these things.
Another drawback of my personality is that I am a person who enjoys a very short sleep. We all know that health is the most important thing that can make us able to do any other thing in the life. If the health of a person is disturbed, then he could not be able to do anything with quite perfection.
Adequate sleep is very much important for proper health and normal routines. Being a medical student, I know that sleep is very much important but still I don't be able to have an adequate sleep. Normally, I should have to take a sleep if about 7 hours according to my age, but I take much lesser than the average time.
There are several reasons behind this habit. One of the is the stress and tension of the work. Being a student, I have to manage multiple things at the same time including my studies, relations, works, and many more. I am trying my best to make proper and necessary arrangements for an adequate sleep.
Would you like to stop them? What efforts have you been making to achieve it?
Off course Yes, I am trying my best to overcome these worst characters that can make my personality bad. I am trying my best to make myself mire responsible for my duties. I always try my best to stay away from the irrespective deeds while I am doing a task.
On the other hand, I also try best to avoid severe anger and rudeness as they can spoil the personality of a person. I realized that the nature of every person is not same. If someone is treating us bad, we should have to guide him and if he doesn't want to pay attention towards over guidance, we must have to left the discussion instead of being temper.
Also, I am trying my best to have a proper and joyful sleep to keep myself healthy and make me able to do my every task with great interest and concentration. I hope that I will be able to avoid my these worst characters in the future so that I could improve the impression of my personality on every person, also on myself.
I would like to invite my friends @alihussain07, @chiabertrand, @chant, @pollito22 to take part in this beautiful contest.
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Friendly attitudes are what I honestly love about people. Believing in God (Allah) is the greatest accomplishment we can achieve for ourselves, and I am delighted to see that you have such a character.
However, I would like you to work on your worst characteristics in life, most especially that of anger and rudeness. You have written a very nice post. Best of luck to you.
Thank you for your precious comment here.
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Trying and get more sleep, it may help with your anger management, there should be a link between your mode and your lack of enough sleep.
Though we don't have any common traits you can see what I presented as my positive and negative characters.