Steemit Engagement Challenge-S10/W3 | I believe marriages are made in heaven!
Marriage is a sacred covenant bond that is pronounced by men and women in accordance with the legal provisions and teachings of their respective religions.
I believe that in a marriage there are so many strong religious values, so that someone who wants to get married will first prepare himself, both mentally and financially to be able to live a new phase of life with the partner he is married to.
Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion. |
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As a Muslim who believes in destiny or God's decree, of course I believe that marriage is made in heaven because of the many goodness that I have experienced during the 7 years of being married.
Marriage based on good intentions by loving and complementing each other will bring various goodness in it.
“And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives of your own kind, so that you may live peacefully with them. And He [also] has made between you [husbands, wives] love and affection. Indeed, in that there are signs for people who think," (Ar-Rum [30]: 21).
As for a small number of people who are not convinced by the statement that marriage is not made in heaven, because seeing some couples who fail in their marriages, that does not mean that marriages did not come from heaven, there may be many reasons why some people have to end their marriages for various reasons. and we must respect each individual opinion and belief.
But what is certain for me that marriage is a destiny that God has ordained in heaven, what we have to do is take care of the marriage so that later it will return to heaven as well.
Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why? |
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Arranged or loved, for me it is not important, because the most important thing is how we take care of the marriage by understanding each other, trusting each other, and loving each other so that it becomes a strong bond that cannot be shaken by anyone.
We can see that most of our parents used to have arranged marriages, maybe even arranged since they were small, but that didn't make it the slightest bit difficult for them to build a sacred bond, their marriage age lasted a long time even until death do them part.
We can also see how many couples are now getting married based on mutual love or first going through the courtship phase which is meant to get to know each other, but not a few of them have to end their marriage at a very young age. Therefore, for me it is not important to be controlled or loved.
According to you what is the definition of a happy married life? |
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A happy marriage is a marriage that is fostered with a sincere heart, able to forgive partner mistakes, able to give in, able to give, give in to each other, and wade through the ups and downs together for the purpose of marriage itself.
Everyone defines a happy married life differently, and only those of us who live it can feel how happiness is felt together. What is clear is that all of us expect a happy married life and all of us will always try to give the best to our partners so that without realizing it we are living that happiness throughout our marriage.
Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations. |
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Good communication is the main key in building a happy household, living in a house will feel like living with strangers if communication cannot be built with one another.
And vice versa, even though conditions require a couple to live far apart due to certain factors such as work or other things, if communication can be built properly and understand each other then that distance cannot separate two people who love each other.
In a household there are many possibilities that can crack a relationship, even visiting a divorce which no one really wants, but what we need to do is how do we minimize all of these possibilities so that they are not easily damaged by any situation and condition, and all of that. One way to do this is by building good communication.
Maybe only here are some descriptions that I can convey regarding the theme of the contest this time, I hope this is useful.
That's all for my participation this time, and on this occasion I will also invite my friends @sailawana, @weisser-rabe and @heriadi to take part in this challenge.
hopefully it will be useful and thank you for everything.
May every day we pass be a goal for goodness and happiness together.
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Excelente lo relacionado al matrimonio, de acuerdo contigo!
Éxito en este desafío!👍🏽🇻🇪
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Hello dear, @sofian88
Hello @robin42, I agree with you, of course trust is very important in a relationship.
A little correction, not 7 children, but 7 years of marriage!
Thank you for your kind comments, I wish the best for all of us.
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Saludos amigo en el matrimonio es necesaria la comunicacion y acuerdos, el amor lo fortalece. Exito. Dios le bendiga