THE CULTURE: TO BE CRITICIZED

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Since we were borne, we have been raised under certain circumstances and another etiquette to be followed. We all value the things under our nose to make something get more interesting among others and make a unique place to be observed. With these views, we are arranged and passionate to live within a limit. Culture, tradition, customs and metre are the things that polish human's behaviours and lead them into moral life. But there is always a question that throws me away without making sense. Do you ever think about a limitation that we are stopped to reach a point beyond those things (culture, tradition….)? is it fair enough to confined one’s imaginations, freedom, space and perspectives under a certain thing?

As we always expect, a culture doesn't feed the wellbeing of the society 100%. But here I'm not gonna put all the things into a single pot. But if you think about it somewhat deeply, you may understand what I'm saying here. We can see disgrace incidents that happen upon sexuality in several cultures. For example, child brides…yes, we all well known about this. According to their knowledge, it's their culture or tradition to make them like that and society thinks that it is the best thing and pride to hang on their life under prosperity. But on the other hand, it is a brutal and infringement of a child to spend their childhood. So can you agree with me about the question that I made before? Is it fair to have a culture or a tradition in such ways? There is neither equality nor humanity.

We all deserve bliss in everything we do. The imagination and space of one's mind vary from person to person. The capacity of making changes is not something wrongdoing. It shouldn't be counted under the realm of making conflicts against culture. Yet we can't distinguish what is black or what is white, there is no point to assure on one’s beliefs. When you have a choice to make yourself happy without making trouble to those around you, there shouldn't be questions about tolerating you in society.

Nothing remains unchanged in this world. It is the predestination of the universe. Then why it doesn't happen in culture. Should it be old fashion unfair and criticisms? Tradition and culture are interdependent with each other. If someone tries to flee from the boundaries and the limitations of certain circumstances without making rubbish, it shouldn't be a thing to criticize or punish. Everyone can gain an open mind to see and respect other's choices and freedom without making troubles. When a mind at its highest peak of view, everything that we have made under certain things will become just a cloud of dust to step. Be honest and fair to understand other's happiness and their perspectives about life not limiting you in an old fashion of fuss.