A Guide to be "The Hero"

"The Glorious thing about the human race is that it does change the world- constantly.
It is the human being's capacity for struggle against being overwhelmed which is remarkable and exhilarating." - Lorraine Hansberry

Scene - 1:

If he weren't standing lonely vigil on the cliff, you might say that there is nothing extra-ordinary about him.
"He is neither tall nor short," Mrs. Anne - her neighbour relates about him. "Nor is he a polite fellow, I tell you. What a big mouth he has on him! Always swearing around like a sailor... muttering to himself".

But then Mrs. Anne is just as grumpy and had being living alone for quite sometimes.

His landlord though has other regards for our protagonist. "I had seen the boy since he was in highschool," the house-owner commented, "Always looking out for the midget of his brother. He was there when their father was not present. Sharing food of his own... Sleeping hungry but satisfied."

Scene - 2:

When you are expecting to expect, you think:
"Oh how wonderful it's gonna go... we are gonna wobble through this together."

You have an image that how it's gonna be like...
Then, IT happens!
A natural phenomena of life but just as serene and a blessing in itself!

A presence of new life lets you remember how much he had cared about you. He had loved you, he obliged you, and he was there when you had your bad days. You had seen the tales of love life in fiction and then you glimpsed it when you married him.

You surprises him and tells him this wonderful news. His face shows amazement... then glows! And, then you tell him about about how your child is gonna be like, and he smiles, adding how he is gonna help you to grow their young one.

Early in the morning when you are throwing up, he stands beside. Later at tiresome nights, he came home tired, and you are craving that particular sauce that is available miles away and he happily leaves to get it for you. After an year, you gently cradles the baby in his arm and you can already see the future playing in his content and gratifying eyes.

HERO - A MYTH?

"I think that we all do heroic things, but hero is not a noun, its a verb." - Robert Downy, Jr.

What makes a Superhero... power to fly around and shooting around lazer beams? Do we have to wear some crazy clothing appearal, that if we dressed at a broad daylight, would make us a laughing stock?
What i am going to write would makes some of you Awwws! and others Owwws? But the reason to write this particular topic here solely is to encourage you all victors who achieved their simplest and tiniest reasons and in result made the world a better living place.

We have been versed in identifying an hero by the presence of any extra-ordinary capabilities in them. But it is a matter of utmost importance to realize the definition of extra-ordinary. (Hello, there Audience! I would like you to write down in your reply, which quality do you think define extra-ordinary?)

What i wrote above are no ordinary stories but illustrates how just being there made world a better place. Their dedication, their wisdom, their patience made them a hero in the eyes of their loved ones.

JUST BE YOU! DO EXTRA ... and BE ORDINARY!

Imagine yourself opening today's newspaper. There is a headline on front page in bold:
"Mr. X's $8.5 million helped deserving students to pay their college expenses!"

Then tv is switched on and there is a breaking news playing:
"ABC organization gave home to the orphans!"

Every now and then by looking around we see lots of things happening around us. We see rich entrepreneurs giving away donations. Then there are revolutionary leaders making new reforms for the betterment of people. When we hear about these remarkable actions, we say: "How can i do it? I am not them! I am just an ordinary person!"

Extra - Ordinary.
There is just an addition of 'extra' with 'ordinary'.
Your extra time and care!
Your dedication!
Your faithfulness!
And your sincerety!
All the extra qualities that made you special from ordinary. Thus extra-ordinary...

These are the really simplest characteristic that everyone wants to see in a better person. And, the presence of these mere qualities makes you a hero in their eyes.
But moreover, it is not exclusive to others - the strangers or the unacquainted people - but your dearest ones. And more importantly; the little care, your attention, simplest patience, or simply being there, makes you a hero in your own eyes.

IF NOT HERO, AM I EVIL?

Some people thinks that people are born good or bad. But according to me there are some shades of greys in between. Circumstances shape human being, which is visible with the tremendous efforts we do to please our relationship.
Yes, we faced some hardships while growing up, there are certain streaks of greediness in us and there will be moments that made us deceitful thus acquired problems trusting others. But the mere presence of these deprivation helped the evolution of a beings' character. The difficulties propelled us from our limits, testing our ideologies, and thus experimenting our characteristics to see its validity. Its all about expression.

DON'T BE A RELUCTANT HERO!

Being human characterize us. The limitation of our abilities forgo our nature. Moreover, by doing nothing during call of action, often implicitly support the perpetrators of evil. So, what we needed to do is to care a little, and lend them a helping hand and do not be a reluctant hero.