Place Someone In My Path

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Every morning of afternoon, depending on what shift I'm working, I pray for God to put someone in my path that I will have the opportunity to help. I have prayed this prayer for most of my adult life and, more times than not, the prayer is answered. Sometimes it is someone in dire danger who needs a protector. Sometimes it is someone in the grip of depression who needs a friendly ear. Other times it is someone who doesn't know they need help, want help, and fights every effort to help them. Today, it was just a guy who needed a ride.
Anyone who has read my posts will quickly learn that I am a cop and have been one for over 20 years. During my tenure I have seen the absolute worst that humanity has to offer. I have experienced how cruel humans can be to each other and it seems, at times, we actually enjoy inflicting pain on each other. In stead of making me cold or calloused, I have tried my best to become more compassionate and understanding to the individual plight a person may be experiencing. I have learned that what is nothing to me could be a life-altering event to someone else. I try to always help others when I can and sometimes that is just having an open mind and heart to listen.
I am currently assigned to graveyard and I end my shift around seven a.m. and start the short trip home. I am exceeding blessed that my department provides us with take-home patrol units as this saves on gas and wear-and-tear on my personal vehicle. As I am headed down my usual route home, I round a curve and see a man walking. It has been my experience that anyone that is walking this early in the morning has a very important place to be. The man was a young black male with long dreads and I am a bald white male cop. Society and the media is doing it's absolutely best to force two people like us to hate and fear each other, but all I saw was a guy who needed a ride and he saw an answer to a prayer. I passed him, I waved and he waved back as I was turning my car around to go back and check on him.
It turns out he was having car trouble and HAD to get to work by any means necessary or risk losing a position on a construction crew he had traveled from Mississippi to work with. I told him to jump in and I would take him to the job site. He looked at me astonished and the climbed in the front seat. We chatted back and forth a bit and he teased about how he never thought he would be in the front seat of a police cruiser and I mentioned that it was much nicer up here than in the back. He asked if he could put the experience and our picture on Snapchat and of course I said he could. He said he wanted people to know that all cops were not bad and that there is good and bad in every group. We both know how damaging sweeping generalizations of groups can be and I was very fortunate to have shared this fleeting moment in time.
Now, I didn't pick up this man as a publicity ploy or for the image of the police. To be honest, I forgot I was in my patrol car and I would have stopped and picked the guy off-duty as well. I'm glad if it helped this man see police in a different light, but I saw another human I though may need my help and I helped. It is as simple as that and it can be that simple for you too. If were as a society were more focused on seeing people instead of labels and preconceived notions that we are told have, we would solve so many of the problems plaguing our species at the moment. I will continue to pray my prayer each day and I am so thankful and blessed when the prayer gets answered because for the most part I get to meet extraordinary people in difficult situations just like this guy.
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The front Seat??????? haha just kidding, but in all seriousness this really touched base with me, seeing that we are in the same field more often then not people do not want to have any encounter with the police. I have come to a point in my career to where I really cherish the little things whether it be giving someone a ride that needs it or helping someone get some gas. We so often focus on the negative side of of our job and the people that we deal with, that we do not always stop and appreciate the people who truly appreciate the things we do for them
Absolutely perfectly said! It is definitely the small things keeping me going.
That's actually a pretty great thing to pray for. Thanks for sharing!
That's actually
A pretty great thing to pray
For. Thanks for sharing!
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Wow, you are an amazing guy! I too pray everyday that God would use me where I am needed! But for you in your profession that can be excruciatingly demanding. Bless you. So happy for the experience you shared with us today....may you have many more which turn out just like this one! Thanks for all you do!
Thank you so much, we all must answer our calling however we see fit. I appreciate the kind words and for you taking the time to comment.
It is great to be able to help peaple out and you never know what is going on in someones life and how much differance you can make for them. And God knows to when we help others and would be most pleased.
This is so true, even a small act of kindness can be a matter of life or death for someone else!
Such an awesome prayer to have... I usually just pray that God help me not put my foot in my mouth that day.
Lol that is a prayer I absolutely should add to my list.
What an insightful experience. Media certainly picks and chooses the way the police force are perceived and you’re right, it causes a rift and almost us against them mentality.
The sooner we all learn that we are all in this together and the more we look for ways to help others the more we will find our commonalities and compassion. Thanks for your comment!
You're definitely one of the good ones, Buddy! 😎
Thanks for saying so @novacadian. We all have the potential for greatness given the right opportunity. I just wish we were not so ugly to each other, it literally pains me.
You are a special human being...thank you for your story...its what true humanness is about...May all your interactions end safely...
Thank you for the nice words. I wanted this to be more about the situation and not necessarily about me.
Such a great encouragement, thanks for sharing your heart. It takes a lot of love and courage to decide and go the extra mile to reach out and help others. Thanks for being a blessing to your community. Love your heart :)
High school nurse here, seen totally opposite..sad story
Thank you for the comment and support!