Stop the nagging..... just let it slide

I have discovered over time that most relationships get destroyed because each person wants to always feel right and safe, nobody wants to look stupid so what we do is that we fight and argue over it, we fight with each other, we keep malice for a long period of time and finally, the relationship gets scattered or destroyed and that just marks the end of all that we have tried to build over the weeks, months and even years.

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It is believed that it is basically women that do most of the nagging or that men do not nag at all. But, as a potential woman, i will like to take sides here and say that it is not our fault because as strong as we are we still have our weaknesses and just imagine that a woman has through go through all of this things everyday;
(i) Quarrel with spouse.
(ii) An hard day with her over-confident boss.
(iii) Her Son being stubborn and arrogant.
(iv) Ill daughter.
(V) Old and always requesting parents. e.t.c

Sometimes we get really frustrated at so many things around us, we feel we have had a really long day at work and getting back home to meet another round of stress is just one thing that we do not want to go through.

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But.... let us look look at it from this perspective:

The people at home didn't go through the stress with us so they expect to see or meet a fresh and refresh you.

It is our responsibility to make our families especially those that love us feel that we love them in return (hurting them is never an option), we should learn to give them our all, our strength and make them feel our happiness.
Talk about your worries with your friends and families.
Take a break and keep calm.
Let your home be a place that everyone will feel safe to run to.
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