My Love Story
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“Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.”
It doesn't matter how hard one could be; when true love hits you, you melt away. Although we have different kinds of love, but when it's true love, you feel the impact.
Romantic love is about mutual growth, respect, support, understanding, and acceptance. Accepting the whole of your spouse, their perfection and imperfection. It takes a lot to love, and it takes more to give true love, so when you have one, value it!
I would love my ideal partner to be one who understands the true meaning of love, because love means different things to different people. It is easy to fall in love when you have a full understanding of what you are venturing into. This way, love flows naturally without being forced.
When I was much younger, if I was asked, "What kind of partner would I love?" I would start describing all the physical qualities I wish to see. But now, with past experiences and a full understanding of what love means, I can say that my partner must have love growth to be able to suit me.
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Sometimes I wonder how people express their own meaning of love because when I see some displays or hear some stories, I imagine how it all started and what their understanding of love was.
Love at first sight, they say, is real and works, but for some people, it doesn't work. I believe in love at first sight because I have a friend whose love story was love at first sight, and to date, it's all been rosy, sweet, and honey!
It all depends on the people involved. The picture Mr. A sees in a lady at first sight will not be the same picture Mr. B will see in the same lady at first sight, so I think this has to do with personality. For me, true love exists at first sight.
Most times, we pray for the perfect partner without perfecting ourselves first. My mom would always tell me, "There is no perfect man out there, no perfect marriage, and no perfect woman." Perfection is of the Lord, and all we need to do is ask the Almighty for our true love because everyone, including myself, has one special person for us.
I have always wanted a partner who is loving, sweet, romantic, and blessed. A partner who will accept me just the way I am because I am not perfect at all, a partner who will have a large heart to accommodate me and my excesses.
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I have heard several married couples say "that men don't love." Could this be true? I know of some people who would go out of their way to do anything for their spouse. I believe that is sacrifice, and sacrifice means love.
Some partners are selfless when it comes to love; they don't mind getting hurt just for their partner's happiness, but getting embarrassed in the middle of it won't be nice at all.
An engagement ring in a public place without my notice is a no-no for me. I wouldn't know my reaction, but I'm sure I will feel embarrassed about it. When I see videos of others, I imagine how lovely it would be to be engaged in public, but on the other hand, I imagine how embarrassing I would feel. Don't you think it's a mixed feeling for me?
Love, oh love! You are sweeter than honey. I love love! Ma'am @goodybest, this contest reminded me of a long-time true love story in my life. It was a beautiful memory to behold. Thanks, ma'am!
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First I want to commend you for such an informative write-up on your love story. I love your definitions and your preference for your kind of partner. In your write-up, two things caught my attention; (1) The belief of love at first sight (2) The statement “there is no perfect man out there, no perfect marriage, and no perfect woman”, PERFECTION is of the lords.
Reacting to the first point, I don't just belief in love at first sight, I do it. I belief so much in the gift of love. It's the biggest tool you could use to conquer anything. I love at first sight in the sense that, I see people with the eyes God eyes them. So anytime I look at a person, the first thing that comes to my head is that I'm seeing a beautiful creation of God. I learned this and that's the reason I can gracefully love a known enemy.
Reacting to the second point. You see love is never going to work on the grounds of perfection, that I know but you see my sister, PERFECTION is a state of you based on your CHOICE. Sometimes I get barvelled when I hear no one can be perfect. First I want you to understand there are elements that makes one perfect and it's all up to you to decide whether or not to adopt and own those elements. I'm relating with you from a believer perspective.
You see, we're all guilty in many of our dealings and it's all because of the things of life we pursue. Because we really need those things, we go all out for them not minding whether they're in line with God's will for us or even the norms and ethics of the society. Sister of God, if there were people in the ancient days that were perfect, there are still perfect people on earth. You mentioned perfection is of the lords, wait a minute, are you not of the lords? If your God is perfect, then so are you because he created you, I mean you in his own image and likeness. Can a Lion give birth to a goat?
From a scriptural background we are MANDATED to be perfect as our heavenly father which you described as “THE LORDS.”
Matthew 5:48 says "Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”
Ok so just imagine you boarded a flight and just as the flight was about to take off, the pilot called the attention of everyone and said “Hello everyone, attention please, we're about to take off anytime soon, I'll be piloting this plane but like you all know, no one is perfect” No wait a minute, how will you feel? Will you not get off that plane in split seconds? But why would you? Simple, it's because you trusted in the perfection of his ability to safely take you to your destination and now you feel otherwise based on his words. The truth is, we are responsible for who we are and I can assure you there are perfect men, women and marriages even though they might be few of them.
Genesis 6:9: "Noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked faithfully with God."
Job 1:1: "In the land of Uz there lived a man whose name was Job. This man was blameless and upright; he feared God and shunned evil."
This adage “No one is perfect” is only a trick to deceive us of our true nature. I want to end by saying, anyone can be perfect, it's just a matter of CHOICE!!!
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I love love too dear, your mom is absolutely right by saying that there's no perfect man, woman or marriage, yes each marriage has it difficulties and it takes two people and with God almighty to build a happy marriage and home. The good thing is that you know what you want and I pray you find your heart's desire soon. Success!
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Thank you so much ma!
Hello my dear lady.
It shows that you are very affectionate and likes love, so you deserve that special person who understands the true meaning of love, "because love means different things to different people" I really liked this part.
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