Steemit Engagement Challenge / SEC-S16/W2 - "Childhood trauma and incidents: how do they affect our children's life? "
How are you all, I hope you are always healthy and always in the protection of the Lord of Nature, amen, all steemians friends, on this occasion I will take part in the Steemit Engagement Challenge -S16 / W2 in the @hindwhale community with a very interesting title, namely "S16/W2 - "Childhood trauma and incidents: how do they affect our children's lives?" Get straight to it, steemians friends.
In my opinion, the biggest problem for a child is parental love. This parental love is very influential on the child's psychology, where these children feel happy if they can get attention and love from both parents. So for parents, especially for steemit friends, if you want to have children, please network for the birth of your child or don't have too many children. Because when we share love with our younger siblings, that is the biggest problem a child faces in the family.
Second, there is childhood trauma, namely seeing their parents always making noise and fighting in front of their children. It also has a huge impact on the children, especially as it endangers one of the parents, whether it's the mother or the father. The trauma I mention here is trauma in the family, because this family factor is the first problem in human life, we are different from animals. That's why choosing pairs is very important for men and women. Because this will affect our children in the future.
If it's a social bullying problem, this is an environmental problem. The best way to protect our children is to move to a better environment, because this is very influential, where modern things often happen to every child. The way to move to a better house or place to live, because there are many other good places, is for the future of us and our children. Because social or environmental factors are very influential on every child. Because some say, if the parents are good, then the child is good, and if the environment is good, then the child will be good too. So avoid bad environments.
This problem is difficult for us to explain, because this is the main family factor. The way to educate children with a good touch in my opinion is, never yell or get angry with our children starting from babies, everything we teach must be done in a gentle way, for example if a child asks for something in a loud voice, then we as parents should not give it, the way we teach it in a soft voice. And our behavior towards other people must also be good, because this child is an example of getting rid of his parents, that's the first thing.
The second is a bad touch, don't shout at our children when they make a mistake, but if we shout once or raise our voice in a high tone, then the child will feel sad, and he will feel down if it's the first time, and If you do it often, it will be an example when you grow up. That's all in my opinion, it all depends on the parents.
If I become a parent, I personally will sacrifice everything I have, as long as my child is happy and can become a successful child and also a child who is devoted to his parents. Because children are the nation's generation and those children are our future descendants, and hopefully with one or more children, they can become leaders who are just and love their country. Amen
OK, that's enough discussion about the challenge, hopefully it can be understood easily and can also get a lot of support from steemians friends all over the world. Oh yes, I want to invite my steemit friends named @karianaporras @alee75 @pelon53 @mahadisalim @josepha, to participate in this challenge, and wish me luck.
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Wow!! Excellents performance. There's so much to unravel from your writing.
Parental love can actually bring their children together. It can build their psychology.
Disputes between husband and wife can be so annoying to the children because they are capable of replicating the footsteps when they grow up
Shouting on children when they make mistakes is absolutely wrong. Instead, a loving parent pulls them into their arm and correct them.
Thank you for sharing this important piece. I wish you best of luck.
In my opinion, the biggest problem for a child is parental love. Yes very valid reason, I completely agree with you. I feel the neglecting of parents to the kids is the biggest problem these days. Another thing I want to add is house issues and fighting of parents and things like that. I really appreciate your post. Thank you so much friend.
I pray for your success in the contest.
One of the biggest problem for a child is parental love. This parental love is very influential on the child's psychology, where these children feel happy if they can get attention and love from both parents. So for parents, especially for steemit friends, if you want to have children, please network for the birth of your child or don't have too many children.
when we share love with our younger siblings, that is the biggest problem a child faces in the family.
Thank