Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1: Dream Couple

Hello, friends how are you all? Hope everyone is well. I am very well with all your prayers. Today I am back again to participate in the new contest of the new season of Engagement Challenge. Where I will share with you my dream couple. I will talk to you about my life partner. Because of which I am very excited to participate in this contest.

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Is your current partner your choice and ideal partner? How did you struggle to get it? Tell us about your heroic struggle.

My current partner is my favorite and ideal partner. I had an affair with my current wife when I was studying at university. We maintained this relationship for five long years. We had to face many problems, we had to overcome many obstacles, still we moved forward with the importance of our love.

When my relationship completed five years, my university studies were over and my wife was in her second year of university. So then her parents were trying to get her married but they were not agreeing to marry me as I did not have a job and I was not established. Then with much difficulty I secured a job and was working on the platform as well. When I went to his father about these and talked to him then they all did not readily agree at first and later agreed. I had to explain a lot to everyone. All in all I found my current soulmate.

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What are the obstacles you faced when you wanted to get married, or why haven't you gotten married yet?

When I wanted to get married there were many obstacles in front of me. You all know that to marry a boy must earn and have the ability to support his family and wife. When I finished my studies my wife's parents wanted to marry me in another place but I didn't have a job and I didn't have the ability to take care of the family which was a big problem for me.

However, I solved this problem in a very short time. I stood on my own feet got a job and married my wife to convince everyone.

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What are the criteria for your ideal partner?

For me, the criteria of an ideal partner is that there must be love first and foremost. Because I have seen that relationships without love between partners do not last long.

Then another aspect is trust which is very important in a relationship
to sustain

There must be maturity between the two to move forward together.

I think if each partner has these things, their relationship will be much stronger and their life will be much better.

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Do you prioritize beauty or comfort in communication? Why?

In fact, none of us should ever see the outside. The mind is what everyone should see even if we don't. Most of us now look at the outward appearance and want to move forward. I have seen that a beautiful woman or man is always attracted to her by looking at her face first. People don't see whether his character, behavior is beautiful, which is not right at all.

I never give priority to external aspects. I think he who has a beautiful heart is truly beautiful. Love should be heart-to-heart love. Love should not be given the importance of physical needs, it causes a lot of pain.

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What is your measure of happiness when you get married?

If I want to be honest from my heart I will say that I have been married for almost two years and I am really much better now than before and much happier.

I used to think that if I got married, I would have to face a lot of problems in terms of finances and other aspects. But actually that is not true. The great creator gives mercy to people after marriage in all matters. The great Creator always takes care of social and family peace as well as giving mercy in financial terms. If you can marry the person of your heart and a good person, then there is nothing more peaceful and happy than that. This has happened in my life due to which I am now very happy and at peace after my marriage and my happiness is increasing day by day by the infinite mercy of the great creator.

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What do you think about early marriage or older marriage?

First I want to talk about child marriage which I do not support at all. There are still many places in the world where child marriage is still taking place, especially in rural areas. Due to which girls are deprived of their rights. Children are not getting an educated mother and the nation is not getting an educated nation. After all a nation cannot move forward because of child marriage so I never support this child marriage and never will.

If we talk about old marriage there are many people who get married after the death of their husband or wife. In some cases I support this and in others I cannot. There are many who don't have children or have a child then if their husband or wife dies then I think they need a good partner to take care of them and for the future. So then older marriage is acceptable. But there are many who leave one wife and marry more than once, even after reaching age, because of which her children are deprived of many things which are not at all supportable.

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I invite @kouba01 @radoan @fz5 to participate in this contest.

Here is the contest link - Steemit Engagement Challenge S9-W1 | Dream Couple.