We live in a jungle.

We live in a jungle. It seems that the few and strong have much more than they need and the many and the weak live in a world of frustration and often hunger. Working for 12 hours a day in a factory or site is not easy at all. Even studies do not now offer you the guarantee of a financially independent, and even less the guarantee of a good life or exuberance. There are a few people who know what they want from life and do so that life is going after them and not after life.

About these men I will speak in this article. What do they have in addition to? What are their secrets? There are questions we ask each time we see a man who apparently does just what he wants, has success on all levels, and seems to understand all this mechanism of today's society. He has unique visions, he squeezes, has relationships, he deals with all sorts of things in a relaxed way and life seems like a long vacation.

The truth is that in the present society it is simpler than ever to do what you like. There is much flexibility and freedom now. Almost any vision can materialize much easier than a few decades ago. Nowadays nothing is impossible. Of course, this does not mean it's easy and you do not have to work to get where you want, but as an old proverb says, "If you really want, you can!" Are you a shoemaker? You rent a room of ten square meters and fix your shoes. Invest your earnings and expand. Advertise with free ads, make your site, promote your business. Do you like to write about a domain? Write a book and sell it on the internet. Do you like mechanics? You're opening a car shop. Today everything is much simpler, but today's men have forgotten two things: to dream and fight for the end to their dreams. They no longer risk, no longer fight, they are a little satisfied, both professionally and in family or couples.

Yes. It's easier to work on a mechanical workshop for a two-dollar salary than to raise money for a year, two or three and open your own workshop. Better spend it all, go for a beer every evening, take a car louder than your employer, eat at the restaurant; Only if you work ten hours a day, at least feel that you live! You spend your money with women! You do not have the courage to start from below on your own feet. You may lose money, have failures, invest badly. This is the case every time you start because you have no business experience. But with a well-established and well-documented plan, the risks diminish enormously. I know people who have had a lot of stores and they were winning a lot. They risked everything in some uninspired investments and got into the street. They went to dig all day! When they managed to raise some money, they went over and worked in construction. With the money earned they started again business. Now they are up again, they have shops and a bunch of companies. About this attitude I speak!

You have to set your priorities clearly. Stay calm at coffee and write on paper what you want from life. Do not rush. When I wrote this list, it looks like this:

1. Freedom

Through freedom I understand my attitude towards life. I know I have only one life, I know it ends pretty fast and I want to live totally, I want to be the master of my own life. I want to work and fight for myself, not for others. I want to know myself and discover my true face. I want to be free. Freedom is the first place to me and I do not care if I get to the street, I do not care if I leave my friends or my girlfriend. Although all of them are very important to me, freedom is first.

1. Material gain

Both to live and to be independent you need money. Without them, life is much harder and rarely more beautiful. Money is needed and used correctly, it will never stand in the way of your development as a man.

1. Passions

Passions are the things I like. I'm trying to make sure that much of the material gain comes from these passions. All these pleasures of mine and the way I like to live are part of my lifestyle, they are part of me.

1. Relationship

Relationship with the beloved woman. We often tend to put the relationship first, but we mistakenly misjudge. A relationship will not work unless you are a free, rebellious spirit. If you do not know yourself, you will not be able to have a real relationship with the woman next to you. If you do not have a win that will make you independent, too, the relationship can not resist over time, it can only be a beautiful short story. If you do not have your own passions and pleasures, your group of friends, if there are not those things that relate to you and with which you feel fulfilled, the woman will sooner or later get bored of the monotony of your relationship.

1. Socialization

Finding new friends, conversation and new experiences with other people.

Each has its own list. All you have to do is know what you want from your life. Engage yourself totally and demolish everything that's old if needed. Build your way you want from scratch and you always go ahead. You can dream or you can make your life a dream, you choose! And do not forget: it all starts with one step!
3 years ago I was working 8 hours for 180 euros. Now I'm working 12 hours for 800 euros. But I only do the things I would do for free. Actually I feel like on holiday. I own my business and work at home. That's what I always wanted, not to get out of the winter at -14 degrees at work at 6 am. I wanted to have a decent win by working in my room. From here I started and I made it so that it was possible. Next step? Expansion of small business. Now I know it works, and the limit I do not see yet.

Fewer words and more facts

You're tired of living a trivial life and you've decided to take your life in your own hands. You've decided to change everything you need to become what you want. You are doing sports, reading, perfecting, evolving on all levels, and things are starting to move. You live in your own world and feel like your visions just yesterday seemed dreams, today they begin to materialize. You are enthusiastic and suddenly you want to share your joy with others. You want to tell the others that you have succeeded, that you have achieved your purpose. Wrong !!!

If you have not noticed so far, the society we live in is an imitative. The people of this society live and see things as they live and think of those next to them. People in today's society do not have their own ideas and visions, they have no dreams, they do not have a well-defined point in which they want to reach. A man with bold dreams will be regarded with skepticism from the beginning. Everyone will try to explain to him that it is more risky to have dreams, that the chances of success are poor or that it is stupid to be different than everyone else. If that man is to fail, everyone else will enjoy because they will have the chance to shout and they are right. If that man succeeds, they will not feel too good. They know they were not near him, and I also know they were wrong. And nobody likes to be deceived. There is often envy.

What I want to say is the following thing: you made a breakthrough because you believed in yourself, mobilized yourself, made a plan, and worked to fulfill it. You have entered your world of determination and released the energy from you, you let it circulate. If you will talk to everyone about your achievements now, you will be hit by negative energy waves. You will not be charged with energy by talking with envious people or people who are just waiting to be wrong. If you have a few close friends and there is a close connection between you, it's okay, but talking to a beer with people you know about your achievements is something I do not recommend.

In any creative process, motivation is extremely important, that powerful impulse that comes from within and keeps you in a permanent state of alertness and lucidity, pushes you to fight day and night to reach the ultimate goal. It is not easy to create a strong motivation and it is all the more difficult to keep in the long run. There are many factors that can destroy your motivation. I will list only a few of them:

• begging attention and appreciation from others (if you expect to be approved and appreciated, your motivation will suddenly collapse when you are criticized)
• Alcohol and smoking (both alcohol and smoking greatly decrease intellectual performance)
• conversations or spending time with energetic vampires (energetic vampires are those eternally pessimistic people that you do not like to be)
• Convenience (things are getting better and you're getting softer with work)
• inconsistency or non-compliance with the original plan (you are finding it hard to make a profitable investment or to expand a business, but suddenly you saw the car of your dreams, and in a moment of weakness you take pride in investment)

When you want to do something, you're just with you. You know where you are and where you want to go. You know what you have to do, motivate and do all you need. Your success depends only on you. Do much and talk a little, and better, do not talk at all! It's just to your advantage.

Article written by kinetik