We are guilty by ourselves ...
The inevitable commitment of each person to society and the need for it to exist for the individual is what drives Sartre to write the famous phrase "Hell, these are the others."
Undoubtedly our existence is conditioned by a number of factors - relatives, society, friendship circle. We would not be what we are if the circumstances in which we live and develop are different. Ultimately, the meaning of life is not to do the best with what we have on hand?
It is true, but when we interfere with our unconscious perceptions of the importance of people and events in our lives, everything begins to get distorted dimensions. Our own perception of our lives is so different from that of others around us. I can even say that it is impossible to talk about objectivity in interpersonal relationships, as we ultimately choose how an event affects us.
And then what ?! Are we ourselves guilty?
In most cases, rather yes!
We recollect the memories of who injured us, how he treated us, how we felt then, and how much we hurt today. We point to the culprit because it is easier than to dig in and to find out which is the tender string that this person has unconsciously touched.
We rebel against the wishes of our parents without taking into account the fact that everyone has certain expectations for the people who are close to him, and when they do not match their capabilities, the responsibility to set boundaries falls on the one who can not Or does not want to fulfill any desire.
This process happens in the thoughts of each of us. We do what we can with our own dreams, desires, expectations, and ideas for ourselves and others. It is largely our responsibility to realize how they make us feel, why, and how we can change our views. If a man with his behavior causes us to suffer, it is because we have recognized in this suffering something extremely profound. His attitude may change, but what is affecting us in this suffering will remain hidden until we realize ourselves.
That's how the subconscious works.
Much love - Krisii
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