Communication, Relation and Positive Action [Way of Succes by me]

Communication

John Maxwell said that ”all success comes from starting relationships with the right people and then strengthening with good relationships. “

In the history of human life, from ancient life until the crazy life now, communication become in the forefront of expressing opinions and desires. Whatever language is used, communication will continue to run according to what happened at that time. The Ancient human spoke about love according to what easily understood by their partners. Stone became a tool for delivering love, bones became a sign of respect, wood can be a sign of glory and every transaction is goes smooth without constraints, even though delivered with limited media or cannot be delivered by speaking. Do you know the people of Kuskoy, Turkey who still whistle to say something or communicate ? At least the people understand what someone wants even only with whistles. Am I right Abi @turkishcrew ?

Nowadays human life is indeed more sophisticated, more recent and more complete than ancient humans. All means are in sight, you are far away but it feels close to my cellphone's camera. You can express your love and passion with just one click, all 1 day transactions can be completed within 1 minute. The social media is a world without borders, all interactions can run simultaneously without waiting for long time, but when you interact you feel that something is missing. What is that ? Yes, the understanding in communication.

The social media like our platform now is not just a world of profit, loss and transactions, this technology is found by humans, so don't lose your sociality. Be angry if the humanity has not become a guideline, when the user of technological come to the theft, be sad if you know there are many people not as fortunate as you outside. This technology is created to make it easier, easier for yourself even people around you. Always be able to communicate about what happened, about what they feel and how you feel. So communicate effectively.

What kind of communication ? Yes, of course effective communication, communication can solve problems, see how sir @done communicates the problems faced by Little John @lvj and provides a great solution. Or see how @oracle-d is communicating support for steem intensely, so that esteemian productivity increases. Everything starts from communication.

Relation

Smiling because smile is the first sign of friendliness, try to smile and show your smile because you finally can interact with someone who can give you many lessons. How to smile on this platform ? Its not difficult, just give good greetings, good comments and constructive criticism. That the first entrance to communicate, isn't it ?. Just smiling? No, as I say the smile is only the entrance. The next thing to determine is how you present in the activity. Communicating is not enough at all, good communication is how you build good feedback. You are there for him, and he is for you. Community is the best place for it all. Your present in a community is how you can appreciate the strengths and weaknesses from other steemians, you can to value their strengths by learning from them, you can appreciate their shortcomings by helping them to develop. The basic principle is *you can walk today, because you once crawled for the past, * whoever he is. Social media is technology but never closes an opportunity to progress and develop. As long as you want to respect, good people will help you. A good relation is not merely born because there is an interest, objectivity is also a characteristic of a relation. So build the relationships with the surrounding people objectively, smile even though you have different opinions, laugh if you really like him.

Positive action

In the social media run on blockchain system, there are many challenges. But according to my opinion in the post @whatsup, ” all this is about tasted". My tastes and your tastes may be the same but certainly different from the tastes of some people. So is it because of the problems of taste then we are different and discriminating. Again, the ideal humanitarian response is not allowed because you asked to respect for differences. More interesting when differences make our lives more colorful, isn't it ?

There are so many positive things that we can build here and the opportunity is always there. It depends on whether you want to do something positive. Doing a vote is definitely because the element of respect, as well as down vote can only be to take valuable lessons for yourself and for others. Today people gathered in a #steemfest event because it was a positive action to support steem. Resteem and comment on each other is a positive action to discuss.

You are required to always try to be objective. You may not immediately rebuke people, drop people for reasons of being unhappy. Again, community is the right institution to strengthen groups. For example #esteem-university-indonesia @eu-id teaches me to Always show up my best abilities, or be willing to be discussion in #diskusi-artikeel @arteem. This is a positive action and makes you developed. Just visit other posts and also often supports are your steps towards change.

This article writen from my experience, so I hope this article useful. Thanks for everyone who help me to grow up here. God bless you all.

My best regard
@khaimi