Give up your need to always be in the right ones. Is it worth fighting to show that you are right? Is it that feeding your ego helps you in something? Stop worrying about being the know-it-all and the experienced. If you close yourself and your way of seeing things, you will not be able to learn from the other.

You don't always have to have control. Do you think that if you control things then everything will be fine? It's not always like that. In those moments when we feel that situations go beyond us, we should not feel fear or uncertainty, we should trust. Sometimes we are the wrong ones and life has that mysterious way of showing it to us.

The other is not to blame, it is very easy to blame others for what happens to us. Do not forget that the others are a simple mirror of ourselves, if something of the other bothers you, ask why, what resonates within you. In the end the answer is always in oneself.

Stop talking bad about yourself, be careful what you say about yourself. The phrases that begin with 'I am' are very powerful and can be very negative for our life. Phrases like 'I am not good' or 'I am bad for this' are determining and limiting us, in the end we are what we want to be. Stop thinking bad about yourself.

Never underestimate the power of thought, stop complaining. All at some time we think that this is a difficult world, that we live in times of crisis and that our generation faces challenges that nobody ever imagined but one thing is clear: nobody or anything can make you unhappy, you are the one who has that responsibility and that power.

Criticizing is a luxury that you can not give yourself. Criticizing another is a selfish and disingenuous attitude. We all do what we can, we are all different and yet we all seek to be well. You don't need to impress everyone. Hold tight to understand that we can not live for others because we can never please everyone.

True love only come when we accept ourselves. Don't resist change, maybe sometimes you think that change is difficult but without change there's no evolution. Does it seem like a negative change? Wait, not hurry. At the end of the road you'll always find the reason for things.

Don't label things, people or situations that you don't understand. Try to open your mind little by little. The mind only works when it opens. Rejecting things that we don't understand makes us ignorant and inflexible.

Give up your fears. It's clear that fears will not get you anywhere, so why keep clinging to them? Fear is an illusion, it's in your mind. Correct your thoughts and they will leave alone.

No more excuses. Do you think everything has an excuse? Do you spend so much time inventing excuses that you can not dedicate yourself to what really matters?. You don't need them anymore, the past is over. This point can be difficult for you to accept, especially when the past seems much better than the present and when the future scares you but you have to understand, the present is all you have and this what you will have and that past you so longed for was ignored in its present moment. Concentrate on the here and now because this moment will not happen again.

Don't cling to anything. This is one of the main causes of human suffering. To acquire anything in the physical universe we must give up our cling to it. This doesn't mean that we renounce the intention to fulfill our desire, we don't renounce intention or desire. We renounce interest in the result.

Posts that may be of interest:

The real Valentine

The importance of mirror neurons

Neurons communicate using viruses

When the sun dies