We like to be happy wherever we go – the reason why enlightened souls out there always chase for zero frustration in life. The sad thing is that we are humans dealing with humans so, what do you expect? Nothing is coming on a silver plate. At one point in life, actually, in multiple instances, we become irrational, selfish and sensitive even to minute matters.

Since our nature leaves an ample room for joy, satisfaction, and corrosion in our minds, we need to learn how to deal with someone who proves that it’s hard to reach an affirmation. Next time you are dealing with someone who poses frustration, know that there is a way out of rolling down the hill.
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People will always piss you off – don’t hate them back

The ability to keep it calm within you is the only pill that your soul will use to maintain sanity. Find a phrase that you can utter in your heart quietly when life frustrations come banging on your door. It should be the tool you pull out of the sane box next time someone cuts you from a queue, and it’s getting late or just left dirty utensils for you to clean up because he or she will not be showing up till late hours.

“It’s okay. I can handle it” will be much better when the frenzy in your head is taking a toll.

They have ‘justifiable needs’ that need contentment

You can approach an upsetting situation by considering their perspective. What are they thinking or are they eyeing for something else to hang on? Someone who is pressuring your nerves is no good for a sober mind, but you can look at if he or she is seeking to satisfy an urge.
If someone criticizes you of your current success rate by saying it’s all easy for you, you could respond by saying “You can’t handle it if you were me, or something mannerless to make you feel better. However, two wrongs never made a right, and that will not be the first time.
Understand that they are frustrated and something is troubling their mind. They are seeking an exit plan, and you seem to be providing a perfect venue. Handle it by not justifying yourself and remembering that the anger is with them, not you.

Nothing is personal so, move on

You want to be happy and that is what we are going to work on here. The central question is, do you want happiness that you can control or should that depend on someone else’s actions? Be the controller of your life and feelings too, and it will be the 4x4 on a rough road.

Remember to stay calm when everything becomes unsettled. Follow up by being curious about your opponent’s feelings. Ask yourself what makes them behave that way and if there is anything worth mentioning back in their lives.
As you try to ponder and guess, changing the focus will carry you out of the misery and fly away with you to a safe place. Do defend or react if you are looking for happiness and satisfying encounters in your life.

Next time you meet that difficult person, we don’t think it will be hard after you practice what we just discussed.

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