Yes,this is something that really gets to me as well, particularly in the sense that people can get so caught up in the labeling that it feels impossible to say anything at all without offending some people. I understand words (and labels) have power, but there also needs to be some leeway in realizing that not everyone is going to attach the same power (or stigma) to the same words or ideas. Policing other people's thoughts or behaviour is always a slippery slope...