How to keep relationships to stay Conducive and Good

Having a partner who really loves us wholeheartedly, is a wonderful thing in life. In addition to a place to share, couples are also often used as a place to vent and tell about personal things. In addition to our parents, our spouse also often gives encouragement when we are falling and while experiencing a problem.

Unfortunately, the name of a relationship will be very impossible if there are no problems and differences that make the relationship disturbed. There are times when the differences that result in the attention and trust the couple to us is reduced.

So how to keep the relationship in order to stay conducive? Let's see the discussion below:

• Intensive Communication.

Communication is at the core of a relationship. A relationship without communication, it will certainly be very vacuum and quickly boring. With the super-sophisticated technology like now, of course we will be very easy to establish a relationship with the couple. With chattingan, will certainly be a more concern for our spouse. And to keep communication interesting, then try to always give fresh chat about new things, jokes or things that become more and more happy with us.

• Give More Attention.

Try to always treat our spouses differently and better than others. When our partner is birthday for example, say as early as possible and give him a surprise with small gifts he likes. Make it as if our spouse is special and we do not want to lose her. If your spouse has a problem, then help by listening to the vent and helping by giving a reasonable solution for him.

• Be Honest and Be Yourself.

This is the most important part for us most liked by the couple. Being yourself, certainly better than imitating the style of others. Without pretending to be a perfect person, we will be free to express ourselves as idol figures for couples without the burden of having a love affair with him. It is important for us not to lie to couples, because if we just lie once, then we have to make another lie to cover it, and this is the most hated thing by a woman.

• Learn the Nature and Behavior.

Watch and learn what matters our partner likes. Then find out also what things are the least he likes. If we already know, then do the things he likes with the notes it does not burden and conflict with our personality.

• Emotional Control.

Never reply to emotions with emotion. Use high patience to reduce the anger of our spouse. If our spouse makes a mistake, try to forgive with the error not being repeated and still in a reasonable stage. Try to stay calm and use common sense to solve a problem. Speak kindly and gently, but firm in dealing with something. This will certainly be an additional value for couples in assessing ourselves.

• Do Fun Things with Your Spouse.

Something that makes our spouses happy does not have to be precious and expensive. Maybe with shopping together to the shopping center, motorcycle or two together on a free park bench, it can make our partner's heart to be peaceful. Try to always meet and do beautiful things, at least once a week. Enjoy your beautiful courtship so as not to regret later when after marriage.

So my post this time about "How to keep relationships to stay Conducive and Good". Hopefully this post can be useful for all of us, Thank you.

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