Love me Tender & Sweet 身边的繁华与温情

参加 @jubi 谷哥点名第四期 ，主题“情”。
大家都在晒幸福秀恩爱，洒了一吨的狗粮，让我备受刺激，准备来一篇相爱相杀的新不了情，让单身男女再也不想结婚，然而写着写着歪楼了。

立秋了，似乎快到落叶缤纷的季节，空气中有一点点秋天的感觉，让人很是怀旧。大二的时候，徐先森每周末从南京西北角的南审辗转到东南角的南财，一眨眼，好多年过去了。

Every August the whether is just turning cold and there's a feeling in the air- a little bit of autumn, but a little bit of nostalgia too- remembering what it felt like, so many years ago, to fall in love.

有不少纪念日似乎比结婚纪念日更有意义，第一次约会，first kiss，第一次说爱你等等。到后来的，第一次带徐先森见我的父母，第一次争吵，第一次独处等等。当然我并不记得这些事的具体日期，但是每件事情的细节我都记得很清楚。包括穿着，发型，每个细枝末节,，甚至每一份肉麻情书的具体内容。

When I think about the little anniversaries in our life, our first date, our first kiss, the first time we said “I love you”, I think these small markers are more important than our wedding anniversary. These things are the most beautiful memories in my mind. And later, the first time I introduced him to my family; our first weekend away, our first quarrel. I of course don't remember the exact dates , but when I think back to them, I can pull them out from the depth of the past decade and recall every specific detail, even the skirt I wore, or the new hairstyle I cut. And sure, I can repeat what he wrote in the love letter when I was a sophomore.

在这世界上，有这么一个人了解你，接受你，包容你，携手并肩，风雨同舟，是一件很特别的事情。11年的时间，有欢乐也有争吵。有时候，会被你随意的一句话，惹炸毛，有时候，甚至觉得你卑劣的小脾气，也很可爱。最好的礼物，应该就是那句 “我还是那么的爱你。”

To have someone who sees you and gets you and accepts you, who has seen the very worst parts of you, who has been everything to you, and who has let you be you, to be the best you you didn't even know was inside of you…that is a special, special thing. 11 years represents so much hard work. We have good times, bad times, and everything in between. It's a deep, passionate, quiet, comfortable love that make me grow and change . It's holding someone in your arms, and you know all of his flawed imperfection, and still saying “I see you. All of you. And I love you all the same”.

照片名称：含情脉脉

拍摄于独墅湖大教堂内景

照片描述：很安静，在燥热的时光里，与一个人安静的相守：吃饭、睡觉、看书、听音乐、胡乱聊天，就这样静静的消磨时间，这样的感觉很好！

In a quite afternoon, it feels good to see a two in-love students sitting in the church. The best way to kill the time is reading, chatting, and sleeping with your loved one.

照片名称：夕阳下的婚礼

拍摄于独墅湖大教堂湖景

照片描述：大部分女孩都有一个王子与公主的梦，过着或舒适而优雅或无拘无束的生活。最重要的是，在梦里，是你主宰着你的一切，包括过程和结局。

Every girl dreams to be a princess, who will have a happy ending with the prince. The most important thing, you are in charge of the while things in your dreams including the process and the ending.

照片名称：山塘街戏台

拍摄于十里山塘
照片描述：它们也许有很多的故事，却不会跟你说，也不会跟我说，只会一直沉默，等待你去瞻仰，等待你去占有，看着你失去，看着你伤心……

It has many stories and secrets that won't share with you.

照片名称：杯盘狼籍的生活

拍摄于苏州太湖
照片描述：我们都是看着别人的生活觉得有滋有味，其实只有尝的那人才明白。至少我觉得我的生活杯盘狼籍。

The best couples are always in other eyes. Only you know what it feels it when really hurts. At least, my life is totally a mess.

照片名称：一路嬉笑

拍摄于拙政园雕刻
照片描述：常常会煞费苦心，常常会欲罢不能的纠结，一路最实在的可能就是这阵阵欢笑……

When you are trying hard to get things you want, and at the end, you find the most valuable thing is that you have tried.

照片名称：温暖着你

拍摄于金鸡湖
照片描述：不过是一盏盏橘黄的灯光而已，偏偏温暖了一条街，温暖了一座城，而走尽繁华的你，抓住了什么？是谁这样一直暖和着你。你可曾这样温暖过别人~

The lightning around the Jinji Lake, it warms the heart of the passengers. Like the lyric says, You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, You make me happy when skies are gray. You'll never know dear, how much I love you. Please don't take my sunshine away.