The brain your main attribute. SAPIOSEXUAL. (English version).
Intelligence is the main factor in seduction.
SAPIOSEXUAL This word defines those individuals whose attraction and erotic excitement towards someone comes from their wisdom and intelligence, and that in turn provides food to the brain as a challenge to our knowledge.
At first this could be categorized as simply mental, but quickly reaches erotic levels. In short a sapiosexual is someone who is attracted sexually by the intelligence of another person.
Do you think you are sapiosexual?
In order to waste time with stupid people, a sapia person has an intelligent sexual desire, with a great sense of humor; are born to go against the current and media standards that promote only physical beauty and not intelligence.
What good is it to be sexy, strong, thin and all those adjectives that incorporates beauty, if we are intelligent? We must keep in mind that love is more than just a night's pleasure. So as I said at the beginning, why waste time sleeping with stupid people?
Vanity has made ugliness only difficult in conventional media. Everyone should be beautiful. In contrast intelligence is appreciated after an hour of conversation.
Being sapiosexual is giving the opportunity to people whose body is not attractive. It is fighting against sexual stupidity. It is perhaps the fall of a norm or caprice.
Being smart is being sexy.
Some are physically attractive. The sapiosexuals have the intelligence.
A sapiosexual is someone to whom intelligence brings you attraction, or someone who is attracted sexually by intelligence. If the term is relatively new, the behavior is not. Being sapiosexual is not a disorder in sexual orientation, it is a preference.
The sapiosexual women
How to seduce sapiosexual women?
An intelligent woman is attractive because she directs her mind to the things around her. If she is able to intrigue you and intimidate you, you would not know how to seduce her. The woman would easily be interested in a good conversation, because she knows how to show constructive thoughts. She is the perfect woman for a stable relationship.
But it can be said that seducing an intelligent woman is not a simple thing. A challenge to which you will have to have charm and, above all, to stimulate it intellectually. A mistake like cheating by demonstrating your intelligence, trying to make you believe that you have great knowledge. There is the risk of being discredited because smart women will quickly recognize your strategy.
- Trust yourself and highlight your personality
Women want and like to be listened to and interested in them. It is likely that many times holding a conversation is difficult, but it is also likely to have a passion that you master. Awakening intellectual curiosity by addressing their passions and themes in common, she will discover that you are an interesting person.
Talk about the experiences you've had, the trips you've done, a sport you've practiced, the project you want to achieve. Try also, know your experiences. Make a visit to the museum, an exhibition, an exotic restaurant you do not know, excursions.
Finally, like many women, a smart woman will be delighted with small details: a bouquet of flowers, a box of chocolates, she will recognize that it is a gesture of good education and appreciate the gesture, with all this, a good dose of humor, will fall into your arms.
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I'm totally Sapiosexual. I find my husband soooo attractive, but I know not all women will find him that handsome. Some men who are all muscular and sexy, I find "meh".
When my husband and I were courting each other, he wrote me a poem, à la Cirano de Bergerac, and it was so seductive and in French, so there were words I didn't quite know, I had to use my dictionary to read the definition. It was like Mollière. I'd read some in school, but I read better in English. I remember when he was explaining some programming things to me one time and all I wanted was for him to tell me those things in bed haha And that programming convo was at work (we met at work, I was on teh call center side) and my boss was sitting with us, we were eating and barely knew each other back then.
There was an immediate attraction for both of us towards each other, probably because we could detect the other person's intelligence. I have a high emotional intelligence and together we compliment each other. I am just so sexually attracted to my husband and our love I think is part of the intelligence we see in the other person.
I didn't know this was a term, an actual word, but I knew there was a reason why I always go for the geeky ones and not the ones most people find attractive. Now I know :p