Does true love exist?

in #life5 years ago

It seems to me that by giving sacred meaning to love, people remove from it everything that is daily, everyday and difficult, which makes their long relationship really good.
When I hear a phrase in the spirit of “it's just passion / infatuation” I understand that a person expects from life some kind of comprehensive, unique love, by which he will immediately understand: this is the very SENSE feeling.

But meanwhile, small and everyday love is too boring for a person. It’s just infatuation, it’s sympathy, it’s anything, but not true love.


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I believe all love is equally good.

Love does not descend to us from the depths of the universe. Love is born within us and it lives as long as it has, due to which to live. There is no magic, there is no message of fate, there is only our personal sensations and having a context.

Afraid of telling a person “I love you,” we ourselves are trapping ourselves. We will fall into it when one day we say the coveted words and immediately feel ourselves obligated by something. And the beloved also immediately becomes obligated to something.

As a result, we will forget how to love and enjoy, because we will drown in mutual obligations that appeared unexpectedly from one phrase spoken to each other.

Love is just a feeling. Love can arise and fade away, but it can last forever. We can love every week a new person, but we can love the whole life of one. It does not depend on true love or not.

Any love is real. But not every love is eternal. And this is normal.

Instead of endowing love with a responsibility that has never been there, responsibility must be sought in oneself. The responsibility to understand your partner, not to hurt his feelings, to find reasons for joy in him, to fight his own longing and irritability.

A good long relationship has nothing to do with love.

Love is just an emotion. A very good and bright emotion that needs to be experienced at every opportunity, and not wait all your life.
But a good long relationship is a daily work that should not be shifted to fate.

I'm trying to say that you do not have to wait for the right person. You have to be the right person.

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It does and I am glad I found it

I am very happy for you! Be happy)

Thank you 😍😍
I pray you do too if you haven't...
Stay blessed

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