Love And Hate: Difficult Concepts

It is said that there is a tin line between love and hate. Is it true? This is a claim difficult to accept . Mind can't easily process the reality of this claim.

Love is a good thing when it is true. It can endure, forgive, give, defend and make many other sacrifices. A true love does all this and many more.

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On the other hand, hate does the opposite of the above. It is fast to find out faults, to revenge, it is stingy, can betray and expose another to danger, and many more.

These two concepts are opposite of each other. They ought to be parallel to each other because they have nothing in common. It is like day and night, which cannot cross each other at anytime.

However, it appears the opposite is the case. Love and hate crisscross each other faster than you think. Love turns hate and vice versa within a short period of time. Though, it is difficult to believe, experiences have shown so.

Some real life scenarios:

• A lovely girl friend who ab initio, loves, cherishes, and can die for the boy friend, can become an arch enemy of the same person as a result of cheating. She may decide never to see him or have anything to do with him. This we know will be the least thing to do as some will take the life of their boy friend which suggests the level of the hatred that has occurred. This is also applicable to boys.

• The decision to damn the consequences of vow made at the alter of God or before a judge and witnesses and opt for divorce shows how strongly love can sour. And sometimes in this case, seeing the person is provocative. So the parties decide to go their separate ways.

• Parents disown their their once loved kid who they took their time to nurture. One thing leads to another, the father claims to shoot and kill the son if he ever steps into his house.
  We can go on and on where love turns hate. And this suggests the existence of a breakable line between love and hate.

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My advice:

• Don't ever think your relationship will not abruptly come to an end.

• Do not think you can always be forgiven.

• Guard your relationship with all diligence.

• Do not take your partner's sacrifices for granted.

• Handle your relationship with care and understand the trial and challenging time. It usually has a timeline.

I will stop here, see you next time.

Thanks for reading my post. Thanks for your support and encouragement.