Build Relationship III, Contributed By @Olawalium
…continued… from part 1 and part 2
There are some relationships that you have to nurture. From time to time you nurture those relationships by staying close, checking up on those people, by reaching out to them because a time would come when you need a lift of whatever form, and once you knock their door, they will graciously open up to you. The relationship you fail to nurture can never yield anything of worth to you. It is like a bank deposit sometimes.
Imagine not depositing any amount in your bank account and you are not expecting any amount from anyone either, so you went to your bank, filled the teller or used your ATM to withdraw. It is obvious you will be denied on both fronts. A relationship that you have failed to nurture and care for will not be there for you when you need it the most; which is why we need to categorize the relationships in our lives and also treat every relationship with love and respect.
Categorizing these relationships will allow you to know who to fight with and those you are not supposed to fight with. Just because someone corrects you over an issue doesn’t mean that person is opposing you. That person is not standing in your way but rather trying to show you the way. We often get confused about this most of the times and pick up a fight with those we are not supposed to.
There are some people that will be sent into your life or that you will encounter in your life’s journey to support you or those that you will have to support too. Because someone doesn’t agree with you doesn’t mean they are opposing you.
I might not agree with you on a matter but I will defend your right to that opinion.
Often times when something is not going some people’s way, they put up a fight and then withdraw to a corner.
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Dear friend @olawalium
The evolution of the relationship can never be done in terms of words. If we are constantly helping someone and failed to help one last time, breaks the relationship.
It is the irony of human that is always the hope of help and help the player of the store. There is a fight with the expectation of love and love. Because it is such a fight that the fighter is felt. The relationship of a relationship is stronger than both sides.
The string of the relationship is very weak, so much of the is broken with little jerk, it takes the care of the other to take a rest but keep the care of each other and take care of the other.
Thank you
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Yes, in any kind of relationship, we need to take care of each other because each relationship has its own expectations. With more bond comes more expectations and with more expectations come more responsibility.
Thank you for your kind thoughts, my friend.
This life always have two faces, just like two side of a coin, there are people that come to our life that we really have to help and we enter into someone life that we only take, just like a poll. No one is ever useless in the life unless such person died. Go by your saying, a relationship nurture well will sprout it advantage. Just like a crops nurture well which lead to bountiful harvest.
Yes, just like a plant or a crop; when we nurture it we will reap the reward. We need to work on better relationships so we can enjoy the good of those we have in our circle of influence. We don't need to treat people like they are of no worth. Some relationship take time.