What's the Best Way to Avoid Talking Down to a Woman When You're Complaining About Her Outfit?
One of the most important rules when picking up a woman is to never, ever give a compliment without expecting a response. It's amazing how many guys just fall into the trap of giving compliments like they're candy. Here are some things that you should know if you feel the need to give a compliment.
The first thing that you have to remember is that a compliment doesn't mean that you have to agree with the woman. A compliment only means that you appreciate what she's doing for you. She might be wearing a sweater and you like the way she looks, but if she was smoking and complaining you would probably think that you're not happy about her choice. Be aware of her needs and feelings and compliment her accordingly. If she compliments you on something without agreeing with you, it's okay to drop it and move on.
When you give her a compliment, you shouldn't try to justify your actions. Just take responsibility for your actions and let her know that you understand why she did what she did. This will make her much more receptive to your compliments. Women take more time than men to realize that they've done wrong so remember that. Compliments are meant to be sincere and don't come across as a way to sugarcoat anything.
Also, when you give a compliment always say thank you. This way she knows that you truly appreciate her actions. It shows that you value her. In turn this will also show your friends and family that you feel appreciated and valued by them, which will help you build a better relationship as well.
Another important part of compliments is that you should never use language that is sexual in nature. Never say that you were turned on hearing her say "what a good boy" or that you want to make her busty. If you do this, it's sure to put anyone off. Also, if you ever start saying that you were hoping that she'd go easy on you, this will definitely send many people running for the hills because you're making other women feel uncomfortable. Always respect yourself and your partner and only give compliments when appropriate. These simple guidelines will make complimenting a woman's outfit one of the easiest ways to boost your confidence levels.
Saying compliments in front of others is a great way to get your own self-confidence going. Asking someone to give you a compliment is a natural compliment that you can do no wrong. The best compliments can come from someone's family or friends, so when you're doing it as a couple focus on getting the approval of the people closest to you first. Your significant other probably won't mind or think about this, but your friends will definitely appreciate it.
Paying a compliment is the same as giving a pat on the back. It really is a simple gesture that can have a huge impact on someone's day. When we receive compliments it's amazing how our demeanor changes for the better. We may not immediately notice it but once it's there it makes us feel like it was just what we needed to help reinforce our success and build our confidence. If we constantly rely on other people for compliments then we never have to find or develop our own.
Whether it's from a man or woman, everyone enjoys receiving compliments. Just be careful when giving one and don't turn it into an argument. Always take it light and keep it respectful. Saying it and doing it with humor is always a great way to go!
