I think that as a woman, you have to be careful not to envy other people's successes and achievements. Wanting the things of others without making the slightest effort to get it is bad.

Envy can lead us to experience a higher phase of feelings that can drag us towards hatred towards others. You have to be very careful not to look at the virtues of other people, unless it is to imitate them and do good.

There are people who get very stressed and are full of anger, because they look at the achievements of others with envy.

Envy can lock you in the hate room if you don't pay attention to it.
King Saul experienced something very similar with young David. David was very successful in battles and in defeating the giant Goliath. However, these successes aroused Saul's envy and hatred of David.

When we are not mature enough to accept the blessings and successes of other people, we can end up in the cold room of jealousy and hatred.

Such was Saul's jealousy and hatred for David that he pursued him with a murderous spirit. Saul lived very stressed by the victorious life of David and more because he knew that David at any moment would be his successor on the throne.

Don't let envy and jealousy fuel your hatred for someone else. Be humble in acknowledging the strengths and successes of others. Make up your mind to accept others with the blessings that God gives them and resolve not to let yourself be fed by feelings of jealousy and envy so that hatred does not catch you.