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RE: BuzzSteem Ep. 30 [Dtube Exclusive] Confessions of a Cam Girl/Stripper
super interesting video. The first strip club I ever went to was on Spring Break one year when my friend and I drove clear from Indianapolis to Phoenix and we went to the Great Alaskan Bush Company. I didn't like the scene and I never have liked the Strip club scene.
I can imagine how it would have been tough for you thinking that someone might see you.....etc.
Also that is not cool your guy bounced out and "didn't want to play house" anymore. What a man baby. A woman has enough to worry about raising a child and all that and for homeboy to just bounce.... not cool. I'm glad you made it through the situation and can talk about it pretty level headed at this point.
Nice setup by the way for filming!
Yeah. I mean I won't pretend that there aren't two sides to every story. He was nearly on the spectrum (for autism) and I knew this when we met, but it was so refreshing to have someone who was interested in talking to me, rather than just after me for some ass. I was so shocked and taken to that that I equated "not getting treated like a piece of meat" to "someone who is suitable for marriage." I feel like I kept trying to fit him into something that he wasn't: father, husband, head of the household etc, and as the responsibilities built up, he got overwhelmed and couldn't deal with it anymore. I guess he hasn't really learned his lesson either, as he got into another relationship after a long break from them, and got some woman pregnant only 2 months into their relationship, and has now totally dumped out on me for any child support. So yeah, def not father of the year, but there are definitely things I took away from my first marriage, and has in general helped me understand men better in my second. Some things are just universal in relationships, and I wouldn't have known that until now, though yeah, I didn't get any choice in the dissolution of our marriage, though it was better in the long run, even if I had to shake it for some randos for a little while! :)