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Did you know most of your friends probably want you to remain poor?

It’s true.

Don’t get me wrong, they’re not purposely conspiring to keep you poor. But they subversively undermine your attempts to create a lifestyle of freedom and wealth.

But don’t blame them.

They can’t help it.

You see what’s going on is actually deeply rooted in their own subconscious. They don’t believe they’re worthy of the success you talk about wanting.

Really, it’s about them and their fear. It’s not about you.

Their inner belief is that if you achieve the success you talk about, you’ll leave them behind. You’ll be driving the hot car, travelling the world, getting rich and having a great time.

They won’t be.

They’ll be stuck with their current life.

So what do you do about it? How do we avoid being held or pulled back by heavy or negative comments?

Those often disguised as “being realistic” or “playing the devil’s advocate.” You know the ones I mean.

These comments can weigh on you. Especially when you’re just starting out and don’t have a process in place to fend off all the external programing we’re bombarded with daily.

To counter this, I give you a simple strategy of using programing messages in my Achievement Formula.

And…

Moreover, the truth is you should probably talk less about your plans with these kinds of people.

And, start hanging out with the people that are “like-minded” and want to see you succeed.

I know it’s tough to just leave your long-time friends behind. But you’re likely going to need to use some of that time spent with them on building your new future anyway.

So the process of spending less time with them will be a natural progression on your part.

Take that time away from the people that are dragging you down and re-invest it in yourself – in attaining the dreams you thought about for years.

Be strong.

Stand your ground knowing you will prevail and create the Prosperity, Wealth and Freedom you deserve.

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thank you very nice post upvote and follow...

It's always great to help out my fellow Steemians. :)

Dear @bigsilver, I will dare to disagree with you a bit this time. I think that its not friends who are breaking someones start of new successful life. I think its usually the fear or low self confidence which is the main problem. Indeed your closest friends can help you to go over it and if they are not able to support you in ambicious plans its not ideal, but its still mainly you, who needs to find the internal strenght to build something new. What I wanted to say with this is that its not easy to get a good friend and in my perspective its not smart to get rid of long term friends anytime they are not supportive to something new you decided to do.

hi @belahejna - You and agree here.

Don't get me wrong. Having good and great friends is very important and should be cherished.

However, good friends will support you in your endeavors and not try to drag you down. I'm saying, you may consider moving on from those type of "friends."

thank you for your comment, very appreciated.

Thank you for your response! I agree with you.

Thanks - I always like to respond as I know it matters to the community. When someone takes the time to comment, it always warrants and upvote and response. :)

There are many minor reasons as to why people want you to fail, including:

  1. Maybe you just don't resonate with them or you pissed them off.

  2. You tricked them into selling them something that didn't work.

However, the main reason as to why people want you to fail is because if you were to SUCCEED, then they may be led to feeling inadequate on some level.

That an interesting thought. And, I agree.

The fear of failure can be crippling; however, it shouldn't be.

We only really fail when we quit. You might like to see my previous article; Don't Fear, Fear!

here's a link: https://steemit.com/fear/@bigsilver/don-t-fear-fear

Thank you for comments, appreciate.

What's stopped you from being who you are? Societal expectations? What your teachers, parents, and friends tell you? What you think others expect from you? Maybe the best way to have a great life is to ignore what everyone else says and do you.

Absolutely true!

Yes, that's what I'm talking about.

Don't let others steer you in directions you don't want to go.

Take charge of "YOU" and be the one programming yourself and your direction.

thank you for the comment, appreciated.

@bigsilver I definitely agree with you on this! There is a small percentage of people that think outside the box. Many others just tend to continue the normal flow of things just because it is thought as the normal thing, and normally those people don't try to look for solutions or to make a change. Upvoted. @gold84

Absolutely @gold84!

we not only need to find and associate with people that think out side the box, but encourage people to do it and take chances once in a while.

Thanks @gold84.

Always appreciate your input.

I love helping out my fellow Steemians. :)

Thanks @bigsilver !

my pleasure.

Glad to help out my fellow Steemians. :)

@bigsilver contributing with quality content and exhanging ideas is how we help the steemit communiy to grow. @gold84

absolutely agree @gold84

Please keep doing the same and so will I. :)

I just got "50" on my score today. Not sure what that means exactly, but hopefully more voting power soon. :)

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